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Toxic Relationships July 24, 2012

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of toxic relationships, exploring how they can affect mental and emotional well-being. He shares insights on identifying toxic behaviors, such as manipulation, verbal abuse, and emotional isolation, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own feelings and boundaries. The conversation also touches on the impact of upbringing on relationship dynamics and the necessity of seeking objective perspectives. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their relationships and consider whether they are nurturing or harmful, as well as the potential for healing and growth.

Sexual Obsessions and Anxiety November 9, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Booker Irvin, Kent Robertshaw, Linda Vanella

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, the hosts discuss the complexities of sexual obsession and its relationship with anxiety disorders. They explore how obsessive thoughts about sex can interfere with personal relationships and daily life, and the physiological components that contribute to these behaviors. The conversation delves into societal judgments surrounding sexuality, the impact of medications on sexual desire, and the importance of understanding the underlying causes of sexual compulsions. With insights from psychiatry, the episode aims to destigmatize discussions about sexual health and urges listeners to consider the broader implications of sexual behavior in their lives.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships September 1, 2011

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, outlining his philosophy on the eight significant phases of love. From the exhilarating honeymoon phase to the challenges of long-term commitment, he discusses how timing, chemistry, and personal circumstances shape our romantic experiences. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding these phases to foster healthier relationships and navigate the inevitable changes that come with love. He also touches on the hormonal influences that affect our feelings and behaviors within relationships.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Feeling Good: Understanding the Chemistry of Emotions January 13, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Elemy, Lauren Sykes, Richard Christensen

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of feeling good, emphasizing that it is a chemical state rather than just a mental one. He discusses how our feelings are influenced by various chemicals released in the brain, such as dopamine and oxytocin, and how activities like exercise, yoga, and even eating can impact our emotional state. Armand encourages listeners to be specific about their feelings and to recognize that feeling good can often be the absence of pain. He invites feedback from listeners on what makes them feel good, setting the stage for future discussions on the chemistry of emotions.

Semen and Its Effects on Well-Being December 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating and often overlooked topic of human semen and its impact on well-being. Drawing on research from evolutionary psychologists, he discusses how certain compounds in semen can influence female biology and mood. The episode delves into the phenomenon of menstrual synchrony among heterosexual women and the absence of this effect in homosexual women and those using contraceptives. DeMille highlights the mood-enhancing chemicals found in semen, including cortisol and oxytocin, and their potential effects on mental health. While acknowledging the importance of understanding these findings, he also cautions against misusing this information, particularly in the context of sexual health.

Exploring the Chemistry of Love and Relationships September 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the intricate chemistry of love, discussing how initial attraction is influenced by body language, tone of voice, and the powerful hormones involved in bonding. He explores the three stages of love: lust, attraction, and attachment, highlighting the roles of neurotransmitters like adrenaline, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. DeMille also examines how these chemical reactions impact relationships, family dynamics, and even mental health, suggesting that issues like PMS and ADD may be symptomatic of broader relational tensions. The conversation invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and connection.

Kissing and Its Impact on Relationships March 11, 2010

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating dynamics of kissing, discussing its hormonal effects and significance in romantic relationships. He delves into how kissing can influence sexual attraction through the exchange of pheromones and testosterone, as well as its role in emotional bonding via oxytocin and dopamine. The conversation touches on cultural differences in kissing practices and the psychological implications of intimacy. Listeners share personal experiences, highlighting the deep connections formed through kissing and the importance of maintaining this intimate act in relationships.

Bonding and Therapy July 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of bonding in therapy and relationships, emphasizing the importance of oxytocin in fostering connections. He explores why individuals may leave therapy prematurely, citing reasons such as anger towards the therapist, financial constraints, and a lack of perceived progress. DeMille highlights the significance of trust and emotional connection in therapeutic settings, arguing that effective therapy often hinges on the bond between therapist and client. He also touches on the biological aspects of bonding, including the roles of oxytocin and prolactin in human relationships, and how these hormones influence feelings of love and attachment.