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Sexuality and Human Evolution June 4, 2013

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this special two-hour episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of human sexuality alongside guest Roberta Maria Ati. They discuss various theories regarding female orgasm, including the poleaxe theory, upsuck theory, and cuddle theory, and how these relate to human reproductive behavior. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the differences in sexual behavior between genders, and the societal implications of these evolutionary traits. The episode aims to shed light on the intricate relationship between sexuality, reproduction, and human evolution.

Exploring the Impact of Love on Well-Being April 2, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Scott Baum

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Scott Baum about the essential role of love in human well-being. They discuss how love affects emotional and physical health, particularly during childhood development. Dr. Baum shares insights from his experience as a bioenergetic psychotherapist, explaining how the absence of love can lead to physical manifestations of emotional distress. The conversation delves into the complexities of intimacy, the body-mind connection, and the importance of nurturing relationships for personal growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and its impact on their lives.

Psychology for Therapists: The Id and the Ego August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of the human mind, focusing on Freud’s concepts of the id and ego. They explore how these elements influence our emotions, particularly in the context of love and relationships. Through engaging metaphors, they discuss the wild horse representing our desires and needs, and how individuals navigate their emotional landscapes. The conversation also touches on the challenges of falling in love and the impact of personal growth over time. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and the dynamics of their relationships.

Learning About Adaptation and Deception in Nature and Humans March 28, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the concept of adaptation and deception both in nature and among humans. They discuss various examples from the animal kingdom, such as the wounded bird and the ball fish, to illustrate how creatures adapt their appearances and behaviors for survival. The conversation transitions to human behavior, examining the imposter syndrome and factitious disorders, where individuals may alter their identities or exaggerate illnesses to gain attention or acceptance. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding these behaviors within the context of social expectations and personal insecurities.

Exploring Free Will and Determinism January 10, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati delve into the complex concepts of free will and determinism. They discuss the philosophical implications of choice, the influence of genetics and environment on our decisions, and the paradox of feeling in control while being affected by external factors. The conversation touches on addiction, societal expectations, and the brain’s predictive capabilities regarding future events. Through engaging dialogue, they challenge listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of choice and responsibility in life.

Fathers and Their Impact August 3, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Scott Baum

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with clinical psychologist Dr. Scott Baum to explore the often overlooked role of fathers in psychological development. They discuss the concept of fathers as the ‘dark matter’ of the psychic universe, emphasizing how their presence or absence significantly influences children’s lives. The conversation delves into the complexities of father-son relationships, the impact of societal expectations on male sensitivity, and the emotional struggles that arise from familial dynamics. Through personal anecdotes and psychological insights, they aim to shed light on the importance of nurturing father figures and the lasting effects of paternal relationships.

When Is It Time to Leave? July 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex question of when it’s time to leave various aspects of life, including relationships, jobs, and even friendships. He discusses the emotions tied to leaving, such as anger and dissatisfaction, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these feelings. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to evaluate their situations and consider whether staying or leaving is the best choice. The episode also touches on the significance of communication and understanding in relationships, urging individuals to express their feelings rather than act on impulse.

Resiliency and Mental Health May 2, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kevin O'Donoghue

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of resiliency and why some individuals bounce back from trauma while others struggle. He discusses various factors influencing resilience, including genetics, upbringing, and mental health. Through listener calls, he delves into personal experiences of sensitivity, emotional responses, and the impact of familial relationships on resilience. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s emotional responses and the role of supportive relationships in overcoming adversity.

Impulses and Their Impact April 12, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the complexities of impulse control, particularly in relation to childhood experiences. They explore how rough childhoods can lead to pathological adaptations, affecting emotional and cognitive development. The hosts discuss various forms of impulse control issues, including stealing, self-mutilation, and eating disorders, emphasizing that neglect and trauma can significantly impact one’s ability to manage impulses. Through engaging metaphors and scientific insights, they illustrate the critical connection between early experiences and later behaviors, aiming to foster understanding and empathy for those struggling with impulse control.

Anorexia: Understanding the Control Issue January 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests delve into the complexities of anorexia, exploring its roots in anxiety and the desire for control. They discuss how societal pressures and family expectations contribute to the development of this eating disorder, which is often mischaracterized as merely a food issue. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of anorexia, including the denial of the illness and the emotional turmoil that accompanies it. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding anorexia as a rebellion against adulthood and the need for a supportive environment to facilitate recovery.