The Positive Mind

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Communication and Anxiety in the Digital Age September 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen
Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of modern communication methods, particularly cell phones and social media, on anxiety and interpersonal relationships. Joined by guests Michael Jessen, Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Giullian Gioiello, and Ben Starr, the conversation delves into how constant connectivity can lead to increased nervousness and a sense of danger. The group explores the implications of digital communication on personal connections, the nature of thinking, and the societal expectations surrounding immediate responses. They also reflect on the balance between technology and genuine human interaction, questioning whether the digital age enhances or detracts from our emotional well-being.

Living the High Road April 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘living the high road’ as inspired by his friend Ricky Rohr. He discusses the complexities of human relationships, particularly how neuroses can sometimes serve as strengths. Armand delves into various personality disorders and their impact on relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one’s own role in these dynamics. He encourages listeners to reflect on their motivations and the power they derive from their interactions, ultimately advocating for a more peaceful and self-aware approach to life and relationships.

Celebrating Different Perspectives April 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joanna, John Valerio, Lisa Arnone
Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of perceiving life without judgment, emphasizing that not everything needs to be viewed positively. He discusses the importance of recognizing the strength in our perceived weaknesses, such as depression and paranoia, and how these feelings can serve a purpose in our lives. Through various examples, including a little girl’s drawing and personal anecdotes, Armand encourages listeners to embrace their complexities and celebrate their unique perspectives. The episode also features a birthday celebration for Joanna and insights into the power dynamics in relationships.

Rhythms of Relationship January 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety and commitment. He discusses how relationships can fluctuate between intimacy and distance, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of love. Armand challenges conventional definitions of love, suggesting that each individual’s experience is unique and cannot be confined to societal norms. He highlights the different sensations associated with love, from desire to satisfaction, and encourages listeners to embrace their own feelings without the pressure of labels. The episode invites reflection on the nature of love and the freedom that comes from defining it on one’s own terms.

Craziness January 6, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of craziness, discussing its various definitions and manifestations. He highlights the psychological aspect of repeating behaviors in hopes of different outcomes, often rooted in childhood experiences. DeMille delves into the chemical influences on mental states, such as hormonal imbalances and paranoia, and the different forms of withdrawal and fear that can lead to a loss of sanity. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and encourages listeners to seek control over their lives rather than succumbing to madness.

Triangulation in Family Dynamics December 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of triangulation within family dynamics, particularly how children often become caught between parental conflicts. He discusses the psychological implications of this behavior, including the roles of good and bad parents, and how these dynamics can affect adult relationships. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal experiences of triangulation, the challenges of familial loyalty, and the importance of recognizing one’s own role in these patterns. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and self-reflection to break free from these cycles.

Exploring the Nature of Balance and Self-Discovery January 12, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of human emotions, relationships, and the quest for balance in life. He delves into the impact of antidepressants, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of Gestalt therapy in understanding oneself. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand emphasizes the need for individuals to confront their inner struggles, recognize their patterns, and seek a deeper connection with themselves. The episode highlights the significance of personal growth and the challenges faced in navigating emotional landscapes.

Inheritance Neurosis September 25, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Tripp Evans, Kent Robertshaw
Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological impacts of wealth and inheritance, particularly focusing on the concept of ‘inheritance neurosis.’ Joined by Kent Robertshaw and Dr. Tripp Evans, they explore how the anticipation of receiving an inheritance can lead to feelings of entitlement, lack of motivation, and emotional deprivation among heirs. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships affected by wealth, the societal perceptions of the rich, and the emotional struggles faced by those who grow up in affluent families. The hosts emphasize the importance of fostering independence and self-worth in children, regardless of their financial background.

Communication: The Key to Connection August 2, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricacies of communication, discussing both its successes and failures. He delves into the factors that hinder loving interactions, emphasizing the importance of mood and emotional awareness in conversations. Armand highlights how our nervous systems and biochemical balances can affect our ability to communicate effectively. He encourages listeners to engage in self-reflection before conversations, aiming for a state of ‘calm alertness’ to foster deeper connections with loved ones. The episode also touches on the impact of external factors such as fatigue and stress on communication dynamics.