Keyword: motivation

Self-Defeating Behaviors January 3, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of self-defeating behaviors that hinder personal happiness and fulfillment. Drawing from psychological insights, he discusses common patterns such as procrastination, denial, and self-deception, and how they manifest in our daily lives. Armand encourages listeners to recognize these behaviors and offers strategies for overcoming them, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and acceptance. The episode aims to empower individuals to take actionable steps towards a more fulfilling life by addressing the barriers they create for themselves.

Curiosity and Self-Discovery November 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the importance of self-awareness and understanding what we don’t know about ourselves. He discusses how many people go through life faking knowledge and avoiding the deeper questions about their emotions, relationships, and personal growth. Through various anecdotes and examples, he encourages listeners to embrace curiosity and seek answers to their questions, particularly regarding their own minds and bodies. The conversation emphasizes the need for individuals to take responsibility for their learning and understanding, rather than relying solely on others for guidance.

Four Day Win November 20, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Martha Beck

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews Dr. Martha Beck, author of ‘The Four Day Win.’ They discuss innovative approaches to weight loss and personal change, emphasizing the importance of compassion towards oneself. Dr. Beck shares insights on the psychological dynamics between the ‘dictator’ and ‘wild child’ within us, illustrating how self-criticism can hinder progress. The conversation highlights the significance of small, manageable changes sustained over four days to create lasting behavioral shifts. By fostering a nurturing mindset, individuals can overcome resistance and achieve their goals, whether related to weight loss or other life challenges.

Inheritance Neurosis September 25, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Tripp Evans, Kent Robertshaw

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological impacts of wealth and inheritance, particularly focusing on the concept of ‘inheritance neurosis.’ Joined by Kent Robertshaw and Dr. Tripp Evans, they explore how the anticipation of receiving an inheritance can lead to feelings of entitlement, lack of motivation, and emotional deprivation among heirs. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships affected by wealth, the societal perceptions of the rich, and the emotional struggles faced by those who grow up in affluent families. The hosts emphasize the importance of fostering independence and self-worth in children, regardless of their financial background.

Mindset April 24, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of mindset with Dr. Carol Dweck, author of the influential book ‘Mindset’. They explore the differences between fixed and growth mindsets, particularly in relation to personal development, relationships, and parenting. Dweck explains how a fixed mindset can lead to a fragile ego and avoidance of challenges, while a growth mindset encourages resilience and learning from failures. The conversation also touches on the implications of these mindsets in children, relationships, and even societal issues like bullying. Listeners are encouraged to adopt a growth mindset for a more fulfilling and adaptable life.

Fame and Its Motivations August 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between fame and human behavior. He discusses how the desire for recognition can drive individuals, particularly in a society where fame is often equated with success. Drawing on psychological insights and cultural observations, Armand examines the motivations behind the pursuit of fame, from childhood aspirations to adult yearnings. He highlights the paradox of fame, where the desire for public acknowledgment can lead to feelings of isolation and scrutiny. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship with fame and the impact it has on their lives.

Dropout Phenomena April 18, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw, Stacy Nunez

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex issue of dropout rates among adolescents with guests Stacy Nunez and Kent Robertshaw. They explore the reasons behind high school dropouts, particularly among minority groups, and the psychological factors that contribute to this trend. The conversation delves into the impact of societal pressures, family dynamics, and the allure of instant gratification through alternative lifestyles. The guests share insights on how boredom, lack of engagement, and feelings of inadequacy can lead young people to disengage from education and relationships. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these issues to foster a supportive environment for youth.

Examining Luck January 3, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of luck, questioning its existence and significance in our lives. He shares anecdotes, including a conversation with a successful TV producer who attributes his achievements to luck, despite his struggles with depression. Armand discusses the different types of luck, the role of privilege, and how one’s attitude can influence their perception of luck. He emphasizes the importance of being open to new experiences, recognizing opportunities, and maintaining a positive mindset to attract good fortune. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with luck and to consider how they can cultivate a more fortunate outlook.

Exploring Positive Psychology and Flow Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of positive psychology and the importance of understanding the human mind’s strengths. He contrasts traditional negative perceptions of psychology with a more optimistic view that focuses on reality and personal growth. The conversation delves into the autotelic personality, characterized by deep engagement in activities for their own sake, and the state of flow, where individuals experience energized focus and enjoyment. Armand emphasizes the significance of curiosity, persistence, and connection to achieve flow, while also addressing the challenges of anxiety and apathy that can hinder this experience.

Breaking the Habit of Underachievement Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Kenneth Christian

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Kenneth Christian, author of ‘Your Own Worst Enemy,’ about the self-limiting belief systems that lead to underachievement. They explore the reasons why people cling to ineffective rituals and the importance of finding order in one’s life as a tool for empowerment. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, they discuss how to break free from habits that hinder personal growth and fulfillment. The conversation delves into the balance between spontaneity and organization, the value of self-acceptance, and the necessity of facing uncomfortable emotions to achieve true success.