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Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships September 1, 2011

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, outlining his philosophy on the eight significant phases of love. From the exhilarating honeymoon phase to the challenges of long-term commitment, he discusses how timing, chemistry, and personal circumstances shape our romantic experiences. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding these phases to foster healthier relationships and navigate the inevitable changes that come with love. He also touches on the hormonal influences that affect our feelings and behaviors within relationships.

Jealousy and Possessiveness September 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of jealousy and possessiveness in relationships. He discusses how introspection can help individuals understand their feelings and reactions, particularly in the context of romantic relationships. The conversation touches on childhood behaviors, societal expectations, and the impact of technology on possessiveness. Armand and his guest, Stephanie D’Ambra, delve into the nuances of these emotions, questioning whether a certain level of jealousy is natural or harmful. They also examine how possessiveness can manifest differently in men and women, and the cultural implications of these feelings.

Surviving Relationships and Exit Strategies April 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the often overlooked ‘flight’ reaction in relationships, contrasting it with the more commonly discussed ‘fight or flight’ response. He delves into how individuals prepare exit strategies in their relationships, whether consciously or subconsciously, and discusses the psychological mechanisms behind these behaviors. Armand categorizes people into three types based on their relationship dynamics: those who are comfortable being alone, those who have Ben Starr damaged and seek attachment, and those who choose partners with known flaws. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own strategies for coping with relationship challenges and the importance of maintaining emotional connections.

Exploring Relationships and Aging December 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love, relationships, and aging with Dr. Bernard Starr. They delve into the dynamics of intimacy, the perception of older individuals as resources, and the emotional challenges that arise when relationships falter. The conversation highlights the importance of communication and understanding in maintaining connections as people age, while also addressing societal stereotypes surrounding older adults. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the ways in which aging impacts their lives and interactions.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships March 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores his philosophy on love, detailing the eight significant phases of romantic relationships. He discusses the initial honeymoon phase, where passion and chemistry dominate, followed by the reality testing phase, where partners begin to see each other more clearly. As relationships evolve, they face challenges such as the ‘seven-year itch’ and the need for security and acceptance. Dimele emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in navigating these phases, ultimately leading to a deep, lasting connection. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Exploring Midlife Crisis and Relationships July 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various psychological insights related to midlife crises, relationships, and societal beliefs. He examines recent research linking midlife crises in men to their wives’ experiences with menopause, challenging politically correct notions. The conversation also touches on the implications of polygamy in different cultures, the motivations behind sexual relationships, and the emotional burdens carried by individuals. DeMille invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and encourages open dialogue about these complex topics.

Helping You Lead a More Positively Minded Life November 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of remorse and regret, discussing their impact on our lives and relationships. He delves into the psychology of psychopathy, highlighting the differences between remorse and regret, and how they shape our emotional experiences. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages self-reflection on past choices and the importance of understanding our emotions. The show emphasizes the value of learning from regrets while also promoting a positive mindset for the future.

Understanding Depression: An Evolutionary Perspective April 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Acchi

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Acchi delve into the complexities of depression, exploring its evolutionary roots and societal perceptions. They discuss how depression is often viewed as a weakness, particularly among men, and how societal norms can exacerbate the issue. The conversation touches on Darwinian medicine, the rank theory, and how depression may have served as a survival mechanism in early humans. They also examine the impact of modern societal structures on mental health, including the role of food and lifestyle choices in exacerbating depressive symptoms. The episode aims to provide a deeper understanding of depression as both a personal and collective experience.

Science of Love January 19, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate science behind love and relationships. He discusses how various factors, including chemistry, mental states, and environmental influences, affect our responses to potential partners. The conversation delves into the biological imperatives of attraction, the significance of first encounters, and the evolution of romantic feelings over time. Armand emphasizes the importance of maintaining excitement in relationships to keep the passion alive, particularly as dopamine levels change after the initial stages of love. The episode offers insights into the dynamics of love, bonding, and the impact of external factors on our emotional connections.

Compensation and Its Consequences Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of compensation in psychology, exploring how individuals often use various strategies to cope with feelings of inadequacy and pain. He examines the relationship between smoking, addiction, and emotional regulation, emphasizing the importance of confronting underlying issues rather than merely masking them. Through engaging discussions with guests, the episode delves into personal experiences of pain, loneliness, and the quest for acceptance. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own compensatory behaviors and the impact these have on their lives.