Keyword: masculinity

Men and Their Relationships June 12, 2013

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of men’s relationships with themselves, their mothers, and romantic partners. He delves into the societal expectations placed on men, the impact of testosterone on behavior, and the struggles men face in navigating intimacy and vulnerability. The discussion highlights the internal conflicts that arise from traditional masculinity, including the fear of commitment and emotional expression. DeMille encourages listeners to understand these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Daphne Rose Kingma on the Power of Love and Relationships December 19, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Daphne Rose Kingma

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with author Daphne Rose Kingma about the complexities of love and relationships, particularly focusing on the emotional journeys of men and women. They explore themes of separation, vulnerability, and the emotional pain that men often avoid. Kingma emphasizes the importance of understanding the emotional realm of men and how women can support them in their emotional growth. The conversation delves into the dynamics of masculinity and femininity, highlighting the need for both men and women to embrace their vulnerabilities and connect on a deeper emotional level.

Belligerence and Its Manifestations December 1, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of belligerence, exploring its roots and manifestations in interpersonal relationships. He highlights how belligerence often stems from fear and insecurity, leading to defensive behaviors and conflicts. The conversation delves into the importance of recognizing these patterns and finding healthier ways to cope, such as through yoga and emotional awareness. Armand also takes calls from listeners, offering insights and advice on managing belligerence in their lives. The episode emphasizes the need for tenderness and understanding in relationships to overcome belligerent tendencies.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Loneliness and Genetic Legacy in Men October 3, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses new research suggesting that loneliness may have a genetic component, particularly in men. Drawing on studies conducted in the Netherlands involving twins, he explores how inherited traits can influence feelings of isolation. Armand reflects on the societal pressures men face to appear strong and self-sufficient, often leading to hidden struggles with loneliness and depression. He emphasizes the importance of emotional vulnerability and the need for men to express their feelings openly, while also addressing the complexities of male-female relationships. The episode invites listeners to share their experiences and insights on the topic.

Understanding Men January 17, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Neil Chetnik, Terry Jones

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of masculinity and the challenges men face in modern society. He discusses the misconceptions surrounding men’s emotions, the importance of elder figures, and the detrimental effects of societal expectations on men’s mental health. Through conversations with guests like Neil Chetnik, the discussion delves into the significance of father-son relationships and the need for emotional connection among men. The episode emphasizes the necessity of addressing men’s struggles with burnout, depression, and the quest for identity in a world that often misunderstands them.

Male Depression October 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Kent Robertshaw delve into the complexities of male depression, exploring how societal expectations and gender roles contribute to the underreporting and misunderstanding of this mental health issue. They discuss the differences in how men and women experience depression, the impact of hormones, and the tendency for men to mask their feelings through anger or substance abuse. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing male depression, as well as the potential benefits of therapy and medication. The episode aims to raise awareness and encourage men to seek help for their mental health struggles.

Misogyny and Misandry: Exploring Gender Dynamics September 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex dynamics between men and women, discussing themes of love, lust, and the historical context of misogyny and misandry. He explores the biological and psychological aspects of male and female relationships, questioning societal perceptions and fears surrounding gender. Through engaging anecdotes and definitions, he invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and beliefs regarding gender roles and relationships. The conversation touches on the evolution of women’s roles in society and the challenges men face in adapting to these changes.

Exploring the Masculine and Feminine Sides of Men August 17, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the duality of masculine and feminine traits within men, emphasizing that all men possess both sides. He explores how societal expectations often pressure men to suppress their sensitivity, leading to an imbalance in their relationships. Armand explains that men who deny their feminine side may find themselves attracted to women who embody those traits. He also addresses how this dynamic plays out in various relationships, including the search for a partner who complements one’s missing qualities. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace their full selves and recognize the importance of both masculine and feminine energies in their lives.

Fathers and Their Relationships August 9, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

In this episode, Armand DiMele and psychiatrist Kent Robertshaw delve into the complexities of fatherhood and the often enigmatic relationships between fathers and their children. They explore societal perceptions of fathers, the emotional challenges they face, and the impact of these dynamics on children’s development. The discussion highlights the importance of fathers in nurturing self-esteem and emotional well-being, while also addressing the struggles many fathers encounter as they navigate their roles. The conversation emphasizes the need for understanding and connection within these relationships, particularly as children transition into adolescence.