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Exploring Midlife Crisis and Relationships July 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various psychological insights related to midlife crises, relationships, and societal beliefs. He examines recent research linking midlife crises in men to their wives’ experiences with menopause, challenging politically correct notions. The conversation also touches on the implications of polygamy in different cultures, the motivations behind sexual relationships, and the emotional burdens carried by individuals. DeMille invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and encourages open dialogue about these complex topics.

Affairs, Relationships, and Healing May 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of infidelity in relationships, addressing the emotional turmoil that arises when one partner discovers the other has cheated. He explores the statistics surrounding affairs, the psychological impact on both partners, and the societal factors that contribute to infidelity. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of jealousy, betrayal, and the potential for healing after such a traumatic experience. He encourages listeners to seek support and to focus on personal growth, rather than demanding details or placing blame. The episode serves as a guide for navigating the difficult terrain of relationships affected by infidelity.

Love and Relationships March 1, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Annalisa Erba

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with clinical psychologist Dr. Annalisa Erba about the evolving landscape of romantic partnerships. They discuss how societal expectations around love, marriage, and family have shifted over the decades, particularly since the 1960s. Dr. Erba shares insights on the complexities of modern relationships, including the rise of singlehood, changing gender roles, and the impact of technology on dating. The conversation also touches on historical perspectives of love and marriage, revealing how cultural norms have shaped personal relationships today.

Bipolar II November 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Ronald Fieve

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Ronald Fieve about the nuances of bipolar II, a condition often overlooked in discussions about mental health. They explore the characteristics of bipolar II, including its potential benefits and how it differs from bipolar I. Dr. Fieve emphasizes the importance of understanding the family history and the societal implications of bipolarity, particularly in relation to creativity and achievement. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by individuals with bipolar II in relationships and the impact of hypersexuality during hypomanic phases. This insightful discussion aims to shed light on the complexities of bipolarity and encourage a more nuanced understanding of mental health.

Secrets June 21, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of secrets and their impact on mental health. He highlights the importance of revealing secrets to alleviate emotional burdens, sharing insights from psychology and personal stories. The conversation touches on how secrets can affect relationships and individual well-being, particularly in the context of trauma and personal experiences. Armand encourages listeners to call in and share their secrets, emphasizing the healing power of openness and honesty.

Change and Resistance Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of change and the natural resistance people often feel towards it. He discusses how societal expectations can pressure individuals to alter their emotions, attitudes, and even relationships. Through anecdotes and psychological concepts, Armand delves into the comfort zones we create and how they can hinder personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own desires for change and the role of the ‘engineer’ within us that influences our decisions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with change and the resistance they encounter.

Relationships with Dr. Terry Orbach Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Terry Orbach

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Terry Orbach, a marriage and family therapist, about her research on relationships and her book, ‘Five Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great.’ They discuss common myths about marriage, the importance of communication, and the factors that contribute to lasting relationships. Dr. Orbach shares insights from her long-term study of couples, emphasizing the significance of understanding each other’s values, managing conflict, and maintaining positivity in relationships. The conversation highlights practical steps couples can take to enhance their connection and happiness.

Latest in Research on Relationships and ADHD Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships affected by ADHD and the impact of serotonin on emotional well-being. He explores the challenges faced by partners of individuals with attention deficit disorders, emphasizing the importance of understanding and communication. The conversation also delves into the biological factors influencing commitment and infidelity, highlighting recent research on genetic predispositions. Dimele encourages listeners to reflect on their relationships, the dynamics of love, and the significance of shared experiences in fostering connection and growth.

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.

Understanding Relationship Dynamics Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of relationships, particularly the negative behaviors that often arise between partners. He discusses how familiarity can breed contempt and why couples may act irrationally with each other, despite being reasonable individuals in other contexts. Drawing on research and personal anecdotes, Armand emphasizes the importance of constructive communication and understanding in relationships. He also highlights the need for couples to recognize their patterns of interaction and the impact of unresolved issues from the past. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and consider how to foster healthier dynamics.