In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of romantic relationships, introducing the concept of ‘mating intelligence.’ He discusses how unconscious biases affect our perceptions of attraction and love, revealing that both men and women often misinterpret signals of interest. The episode highlights common misconceptions about dating behaviors, including how intelligence can skew perceptions of romantic interest. DeMille also examines the role of attachment styles in relationships, emphasizing how early experiences shape adult romantic behaviors. The discussion is enriched by insights from guest psychologist Iris Reiner, who delves into attachment theory and its implications for forming lasting partnerships.