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Understanding Relationships: Medicated vs. Stimulated Types December 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of personality types: medicated and stimulated. He discusses how individuals often seek partners who balance their energy levels, with medicated types gravitating towards stimulating partners and vice versa. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the impact of energy levels on relationships, and the importance of understanding oneself and one’s partner. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship dynamics and the role of energy in their connections.

Relationships and Spirituality January 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Judith Gass, Robbie Gass

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships with guests Robbie and Judith Gass. They explore the challenges of love, the importance of self-awareness, and the spiritual dimensions of partnerships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the need for patience, communication, and the willingness to grow together. The conversation touches on the significance of recognizing one’s own role in relationship dynamics and the transformative power of love when approached with openness and commitment.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Relationships and Their Challenges March 12, 2009

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romantic relationships, particularly how they evolve over time, especially after having children. He discusses the challenges couples face in maintaining their connection and the importance of understanding one’s own needs. Through anecdotes and listener calls, Armand emphasizes the significance of self-awareness and growth in relationships, urging individuals to prioritize their emotional well-being while navigating the dynamics of love and partnership.

Exploring the Nature of Love October 28, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ari Erwin, Dr. Bernard Starr, Helen Fisher, Lucy Brown

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love, questioning whether it is merely an emotion or a chemical state. Drawing on research by anthropologist Helen Fisher, the discussion explores the biochemical and neurological underpinnings of romantic love, including the brain’s reward systems. The conversation touches on the challenges and joys of love, the risks involved, and how love evolves over time. Armand also reflects on personal experiences and the broader implications of love in human relationships.

Finding Balance in Relationships April 1, 2008

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the delicate balance between individuality (‘me’) and togetherness (‘we’) in relationships. He discusses the importance of maintaining one’s identity while fostering a connection with a partner. Through various examples and insights, he highlights how losing oneself in a relationship can lead to feelings of desperation and isolation. The conversation emphasizes the need for autonomy within partnerships and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the dynamics of their relationships. Armand invites callers to share their thoughts and challenges regarding this balance.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Love and Relationships March 1, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Annalisa Erba

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with clinical psychologist Dr. Annalisa Erba about the evolving landscape of romantic partnerships. They discuss how societal expectations around love, marriage, and family have shifted over the decades, particularly since the 1960s. Dr. Erba shares insights on the complexities of modern relationships, including the rise of singlehood, changing gender roles, and the impact of technology on dating. The conversation also touches on historical perspectives of love and marriage, revealing how cultural norms have shaped personal relationships today.

Misogyny and Misandry: Exploring Gender Dynamics September 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex dynamics between men and women, discussing themes of love, lust, and the historical context of misogyny and misandry. He explores the biological and psychological aspects of male and female relationships, questioning societal perceptions and fears surrounding gender. Through engaging anecdotes and definitions, he invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and beliefs regarding gender roles and relationships. The conversation touches on the evolution of women’s roles in society and the challenges men face in adapting to these changes.