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Genius of Instinct June 16, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Henry Weisinger, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with author Henry Weisinger, who discusses his book ‘The Genius of Instinct.’ They explore the role of instincts in human behavior, emphasizing how these hardwired tools have evolved to help us thrive rather than merely survive. Weisinger identifies six key instincts: shelter seeking, care soliciting, caregiving, beautifying, cooperation, and curiosity. The conversation delves into how these instincts manifest in our lives and relationships, and the importance of embracing vulnerability for personal growth and connection.

Irrationality and Expectations July 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Dan Ariely

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of irrationality with behavioral economist Dr. Dan Ariely, author of ‘Predictably Irrational.’ They explore how expectations shape our experiences, particularly in the context of placebos and the psychology behind pain relief. Ariely shares personal anecdotes from his time in a burn unit and discusses the surprising effects of price and origin on perceived medication efficacy. The conversation delves into the complexities of human behavior, including the fear of abandonment and the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our irrational tendencies.

Rejection Sensitivity July 16, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of rejection sensitivity, discussing how individuals react to feelings of rejection in their social lives. He delves into the psychological and biological aspects of rejection, explaining how it can lead to anxiety, depression, and a distorted self-image. The show highlights the importance of understanding one’s sensitivity to rejection and how it affects relationships. Armand also shares insights on how societal changes may be contributing to increased rejection sensitivity among individuals today. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and consider ways to cope and build resilience.

Passive Aggressive Behavior July 2, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of passive aggressive behavior, a form of resistance often misunderstood. He defines passive aggression as a defense mechanism characterized by resentment, procrastination, and indirect hostility. Armand discusses its signs, such as chronic lateness and avoidance of responsibility, and contrasts it with other forms of aggression. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying fears that drive passive aggressive behavior and encourages listeners to seek assertiveness instead. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, the episode sheds light on how to navigate relationships affected by passive aggression.

Self-Love and Narcissism March 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Frank Yeomans

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Frank Yeoman explore the complex themes of self-love, narcissism, and the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of self-worth. They discuss the distinction between healthy and unhealthy narcissism, the impact of childhood experiences on self-image, and the challenges of forming genuine relationships. Through poetry and personal anecdotes, they delve into the psychological underpinnings of narcissism, its manifestations in behavior, and the implications for mental health. The conversation also touches on the cultural obsession with celebrity and the dangers of idealization.

Human Functioning and Dynamics November 21, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, particularly focusing on individuals for whom love can be toxic or unnecessary. He discusses the psychological aspects of loneliness, the dynamics of private individuals, and the impact of obsessive-compulsive behaviors on relationships. Through engaging anecdotes and listener calls, the show delves into the nature of human connection, the struggles of those who prefer solitude, and the societal pressures to conform to social norms. Armand encourages listeners to embrace their unique experiences with love and relationships.

Dealing with Difficult People September 13, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Antti

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Antti explore the complexities of interacting with difficult individuals. They discuss various types of difficult people, including the angry, fearful, overly emotional, and passive-aggressive. The hosts emphasize the importance of recognizing both subjective and objective experiences when dealing with such individuals. They provide insights into understanding the underlying emotions that drive difficult behaviors and offer strategies for managing interactions effectively. By fostering self-awareness and empathy, listeners can navigate challenging relationships and improve their own emotional resilience.

Kindness August 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound concept of kindness, discussing its significance in human relationships and society. He delves into the attributes that contribute to a well-balanced individual, including wisdom, courage, humanity, and justice. Armand emphasizes the importance of being connected to others and how acts of kindness can foster community and belonging. He reflects on personal experiences and the challenges that prevent kindness, such as fear, jealousy, and greed. Throughout the discussion, he encourages listeners to recognize opportunities for kindness in their daily lives and to cultivate a more compassionate world.

Understanding Systems Theory March 23, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of systems theory, emphasizing the importance of viewing individuals within the context of their family systems. He discusses how behaviors, such as a child’s depression or acting out, often reflect the dynamics of the entire family rather than just the individual. Through various examples, including the impact of parental depression on children and the roles individuals play within family systems, Armand illustrates how understanding these relationships can lead to healing. He also touches on the implications of medication like Ritalin and the need for a holistic approach to treatment.

Sexuality and Relationships with Dr. Judy Kuriansky January 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Judy Kuriansky, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a lively discussion with Dr. Judy Kuriansky, a seasoned sex therapist and author. They explore various aspects of sexuality, intimacy, and relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of communication, acceptance, and emotional expression. Dr. Kuriansky shares insights from her extensive experience, including techniques for enhancing intimacy and addressing sexual apathy. The conversation also touches on the significance of understanding one’s own needs and the balance between togetherness and independence in relationships.