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Understanding Personality Types and Human Experience October 23, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Erin Oberlander, John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of human personality types, focusing on the continuum from narcissism to psychopathy. He explores how these traits manifest in individuals, particularly in the context of therapy and personal relationships. With insights from guests Dr. Erin Oberlander and Lisa Arnone, the conversation delves into the importance of understanding emotional states and the dynamics of transference in therapy. The episode emphasizes the necessity of compassion and connection in mental health practices, while also addressing the challenges faced by both professionals and clients in navigating these intricate personality traits.

Powerlessness March 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella explore the concept of powerlessness and its impact on mental health. They discuss how feelings of powerlessness can lead to depression, particularly when combined with self-directed anger. The hosts delve into various aspects of power, including addiction, love, and societal expectations, while emphasizing the importance of recognizing and accepting one’s limitations. Through listener calls, they highlight personal experiences and the struggle to regain control in the face of uncontrollable circumstances. The conversation encourages self-reflection and the pursuit of support from others.

Exploring the Real Self and Love April 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the real self versus the outer self, questioning the authenticity of our identities. He discusses the concept of the loving self and how it relates to our feelings of satisfaction and connection with others. Through various examples, including relationships and personal experiences, Armand challenges listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of love and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes that love often reflects how we feel about ourselves in the presence of others, prompting a deeper exploration of what it means to be truly real.

How Do People Perceive You? March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of self-perception and how others perceive us. He discusses the importance of understanding how we are viewed by those around us, whether they see us as trustworthy, invisible, or as a resource. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into the nuances of relationships and the impact of our actions and words on how we are perceived. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own identities and the stories they tell about themselves, ultimately questioning the gap between self-image and external perception.

Rhythms of Relationship January 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety and commitment. He discusses how relationships can fluctuate between intimacy and distance, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of love. Armand challenges conventional definitions of love, suggesting that each individual’s experience is unique and cannot be confined to societal norms. He highlights the different sensations associated with love, from desire to satisfaction, and encourages listeners to embrace their own feelings without the pressure of labels. The episode invites reflection on the nature of love and the freedom that comes from defining it on one’s own terms.

Affection January 18, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of affection and its significance in relationships. He discusses the various forms of affection, including nurturing, play, and the importance of touch, particularly for the elderly. The conversation highlights how affection can impact mental health and the ways in which cultural differences shape our understanding of affection. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with affection and its role in their lives, emphasizing the need for connection and the potential consequences of its absence.

Gratitude and the Holidays November 1, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of gratitude, especially during the holiday season. He discusses the expectations surrounding gratitude, the importance of empathy, and how individuals often overlook the effort that goes into holiday gatherings. Armand also addresses the feelings of loneliness that can accompany the holidays and offers suggestions for those who find themselves alone. He emphasizes the significance of volunteering and helping others as a way to foster gratitude and connection. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with gratitude and the complexities of family dynamics during festive times.

Yearning and Its Impact on Life August 26, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of yearning, its significance in our lives, and how it shapes our relationships and emotional well-being. He discusses the disparity between individuals who yearn for connection and those who disavow their yearning due to past experiences. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of yearning, including its role in grief and relationships, and how it can manifest in various aspects of life, such as love, sexuality, and personal achievements. Armand also touches on the importance of recognizing and embracing our yearnings to lead a fulfilling life.

Technology and Its Impact on Our Lives July 22, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the effects of technology on communication, relationships, and our brains. He reflects on the shift from landlines to cell phones and how this change has influenced our ability to connect with others. The conversation explores the addictive nature of technology, particularly the dopamine response associated with multitasking and digital stimulation. Armand emphasizes the importance of being present in our interactions, especially with children, and suggests that parents should embrace their children’s technological knowledge. Ultimately, the episode raises questions about the balance between technology use and meaningful human connection.

Emotional Process in Music Therapy January 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Pelletieri, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with Dr. John Pelletieri, a psychologist and music therapist, to explore the profound connection between music and emotions. They discuss how music serves as a healing process, the physiological and cognitive aspects of emotions, and the role of improvisation in music therapy. John shares insights from his book, ‘Emotional Process in Music Therapy,’ highlighting the importance of understanding the brain’s response to music and how it can evoke memories and feelings. The conversation delves into the therapeutic potential of music, the interplay of different brain functions, and the significance of emotional elicitors in our lives.