The Positive Mind

Keyword: human behavior

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Graduate Class in Positive Psychology June 19, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of human behavior, particularly focusing on dependency and independence in relationships. They discuss the challenges faced by individuals with dependent personality traits, exploring how these traits manifest in therapy and everyday life. Through engaging dialogue, they emphasize the importance of understanding oneself and others without judgment, highlighting the significance of compassion and connection in fostering personal growth. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of relationships, the role of therapists, and the journey towards self-discovery and empowerment.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Evolution of Emotions July 13, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of emotions and their impact on human behavior. He discusses how childhood emotions can persist into adulthood, examining various emotional states such as fear, anger, and anxiety. Drawing on Charles Darwin’s research, he highlights the evolutionary significance of emotions and their expressions. The conversation delves into the complexities of emotional development, the role of social interactions, and the importance of understanding emotional changes over time. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and support in navigating emotional challenges throughout life.

Reactions to Catastrophe March 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Amhara, Anthony, Daphne Rose Kingma, Dr. Ronald Fieve, Linda Vanella, Monroe, Pat Moffitt, Vincent
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the varied human reactions to catastrophic events, particularly focusing on the recent disasters in Japan. He explores cultural differences in responses, emphasizing the Japanese values of security and harmony. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into personal experiences of fear, helplessness, and the quest for understanding in the face of tragedy. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own reactions and the importance of compassion in times of crisis.

How Do People Perceive You? March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of self-perception and how others perceive us. He discusses the importance of understanding how we are viewed by those around us, whether they see us as trustworthy, invisible, or as a resource. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into the nuances of relationships and the impact of our actions and words on how we are perceived. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own identities and the stories they tell about themselves, ultimately questioning the gap between self-image and external perception.

Discernment and Relationships December 28, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of discernment in relationships and the challenges of understanding what is truly going on beneath the surface. He discusses how individuals often misinterpret their partners’ actions and emotions, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand emphasizes the importance of clear communication and self-awareness in navigating relationships. He also highlights the tendency for people to project their needs and insecurities onto others, complicating the dynamics of love and trust. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own perceptions and to seek deeper connections with their partners.

Thursday Thoughts December 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of vainglory, distinguishing it from boastfulness. He explores how vainglorious individuals often seek admiration by subtly inserting their accomplishments into conversations about significant events, like 9-11. Armand reflects on the nature of vanity and humility, emphasizing the importance of genuine humility over self-promotion. He encourages listeners to recognize the signs of vainglory in themselves and others, advocating for understanding and compassion towards those who may feel inadequate and resort to boasting as a defense mechanism. The episode concludes with a reminder of the value of humility in personal interactions.

Exploring Attachments December 5, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella delve into the concept of attachment styles, drawing from Mary Salter Ainsworth’s groundbreaking research. They discuss the various types of attachment—secure, anxious, and avoidant—and how these styles manifest in adult relationships. The conversation explores how our early experiences shape our adult attachments and the complexities of navigating intimacy and independence. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own attachment styles and how they impact their relationships, as well as the role of modern technology in shaping these dynamics.