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Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne-Marie, Ben Starr, David Travland, Dr. Joe Ledoux, Giullian Gioiello, Hanara, Patricia Miranda, Roger, Steve

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

Strategies for Living November 12, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various strategies people use to navigate life, drawing parallels between human behavior and animal instincts. He discusses how individuals develop unique strategies based on their upbringing and experiences, such as the need for approval, the desire for beauty, or the instinct to dominate. Through engaging conversations with guests, the show delves into the complexities of human relationships and the importance of understanding different survival strategies. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own strategies and how they impact their lives and interactions with others.

Generosity and Stinginess August 27, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of generosity and stinginess, delving into how these traits reflect our personalities and affect our relationships. He discusses the motivations behind giving and receiving, the emotional consequences of being a compulsive giver, and the psychological implications of stinginess. Through various examples and anecdotes, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own giving patterns and consider the deeper meanings behind their actions. The episode aims to foster a better understanding of oneself and others, ultimately promoting healthier interactions and relationships.

Understanding Assertive Energy April 10, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses assertive energy, focusing on the Enneagram personality types, particularly types 3, 7, and 8. The conversation delves into the characteristics of assertive individuals, exploring how their energy manifests in various ways. Type 8, known as the Challenger, is characterized by its intense, direct energy and strong boundaries. Type 7, the Enthusiast, is portrayed as vibrant and restless, always seeking new experiences to avoid feelings of emptiness. Lastly, type 3, the Achiever, is driven by ambition and the need for validation, often masking deeper feelings of inadequacy. The episode highlights the complexities of these personality types and their interactions.

Introspection and the Art of Self-Discovery January 15, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of introspection and the importance of self-awareness. He discusses how understanding our unconscious mind can lead to personal growth and better decision-making. By reframing self-evaluation as a means of categorizing our thoughts and feelings, listeners are encouraged to embrace their complexity without self-criticism. DeMille emphasizes the need for curiosity and the value of relationships in understanding ourselves. The episode invites listeners to engage in a journey of self-discovery, highlighting that the unconscious mind plays a significant role in shaping our behaviors and choices.

Dopaminergic Mind in Human Evolution and History November 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Fred Previck

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele interviews Dr. Fred Previck about the role of dopamine in human evolution and behavior. Previck presents a provocative theory suggesting that dopamine is central to understanding human achievements and the complexities of modern behavior. He discusses how increased dopamine levels have contributed to both our cognitive abilities and various mental health disorders. The conversation explores the balance between the dopaminergic and serotonergic aspects of the brain, emphasizing the need for a more nurturing and sustainable approach to our lives and society.

Psychopathy and Betrayal August 28, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of psychopathy and betrayal, discussing how individuals with psychopathic traits can impact their communities more than those with full-blown psychopathy. He delves into the nature of betrayal, its psychological effects, and how societal norms can shape our understanding of trust and loyalty. Through engaging anecdotes and philosophical insights, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences with betrayal and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. He emphasizes the need for vigilance and understanding in love, while also addressing the cultural nuances surrounding betrayal.

Psychology for Therapists: The Id and the Ego August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of the human mind, focusing on Freud’s concepts of the id and ego. They explore how these elements influence our emotions, particularly in the context of love and relationships. Through engaging metaphors, they discuss the wild horse representing our desires and needs, and how individuals navigate their emotional landscapes. The conversation also touches on the challenges of falling in love and the impact of personal growth over time. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and the dynamics of their relationships.

Emotions and Their Manipulation August 15, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of emotions and the ways they can be elicited and manipulated. He discusses the concept of trolling, the emotional responses it evokes, and how emotions can be both a source of connection and a tool for manipulation. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and societal observations, Armand delves into why people may seek to provoke emotional reactions in others. The conversation also touches on the therapeutic process and the importance of understanding one’s own emotions to navigate interpersonal dynamics effectively.

Education for Psychologists: The Role of the Unconscious August 8, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone discuss the unconscious mind’s role in shaping our thoughts and behaviors. They explore concepts from Freud, including the id, ego, and superego, and how these elements interact within our psyche. The hosts share listener responses about the significance of Armand’s voice, highlighting themes of safety, kindness, and understanding. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the unconscious influences that affect our lives, as well as the therapeutic process of uncovering these hidden aspects of our minds.