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Celebrations and the Primitive Self March 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Bernie Starr, Claudia Fox, Deborah King, Deidre Middleston Shide, Eric Morgan, Jeremy Spiegel, Lillian Gonzalez

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of celebrations and our connection to the primitive self. He discusses the allure of primitive instincts, such as dance, passion, and the need for connection, contrasting them with modern societal expectations. DeMille delves into the balance between intellect and instinct, emphasizing the importance of emotions and instincts in our lives. He also touches on the impact of hormones on our behaviors and relationships, urging listeners to understand their instincts while navigating modern life. The discussion highlights the duality of human nature, exploring both the Eros and Thanatos instincts, and encourages self-awareness and evolution.

Abnormality and Normalcy June 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of abnormality and normalcy, particularly in the context of human behavior and societal expectations. He discusses how perceptions of what is ‘normal’ can vary greatly, influenced by cultural norms and individual experiences. The conversation delves into topics such as paraphilias, maladaptivity, and the pressures of conforming to societal standards. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own definitions of normalcy and the impact of secrets and personal struggles on their sense of self. The episode invites callers to share their thoughts and experiences, fostering a dialogue about the complexities of human behavior.

Morality and Judgment March 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of morality and judgment, drawing on psychological theories from Freud and Eric Berne. He discusses the id, ego, and superego, and how these concepts influence our understanding of right and wrong. The conversation delves into moral dilemmas, societal judgments, and the impact of neuroscience on our ethical decisions. Through various examples, including controversial topics like war and personal relationships, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own moral beliefs and the influences that shape them.

Eliot Spitzer and the Pressure of Power March 11, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent scandal involving former New York Governor Eliot Spitzer, who allegedly violated the Mann Act by transporting a sex worker across state lines. DeMille explores the psychological pressures faced by politicians and how these pressures can lead to self-destructive behavior. He reflects on the complexities of power, infidelity, and public judgment, encouraging listeners to consider the broader implications of Spitzer’s actions. The conversation also touches on societal attitudes toward infidelity and the media’s role in shaping public perception.

Understanding Love and Neediness March 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the often painful nature of neediness in relationships. He discusses how men and women experience love differently, with men typically feeling a sense of need before securing a partner, while women often feel it afterward. DeMille delves into the idea that love can sometimes feel like an addiction, leading individuals to chase after unavailable partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and avoid the pitfalls of desperation and neediness.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Sexuality and Desire November 21, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel about the complexities of sexuality and desire in relationships. They discuss the interplay between intimacy and eroticism, the impact of societal norms on sexual fulfillment, and the importance of maintaining desire through novelty and playfulness. Perel emphasizes that desire often thrives on uncertainty and that couples should actively negotiate their boundaries and expectations regarding monogamy. The conversation also touches on the significance of privacy in sexual relationships and the need for open communication about fantasies and desires.

Armand DiMele September 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Sleep and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human behavior, focusing on the differences in how individuals experience love, sleep, and sexuality. He discusses the phenomenon of parasomnia, particularly sexomnia, where individuals engage in sexual behaviors while asleep without any memory of the actions. Through engaging dialogue with callers, Armand delves into personal sleep habits, the impact of environment on sleep quality, and the intricate connections between sleep and sexual arousal. The conversation emphasizes the uniqueness of each person’s experiences and the importance of understanding these differences in fostering empathy and connection.

Exploring Midlife Crisis and Relationships July 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various psychological insights related to midlife crises, relationships, and societal beliefs. He examines recent research linking midlife crises in men to their wives’ experiences with menopause, challenging politically correct notions. The conversation also touches on the implications of polygamy in different cultures, the motivations behind sexual relationships, and the emotional burdens carried by individuals. DeMille invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and encourages open dialogue about these complex topics.

Love and Relationships March 1, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Annalisa Erba

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with clinical psychologist Dr. Annalisa Erba about the evolving landscape of romantic partnerships. They discuss how societal expectations around love, marriage, and family have shifted over the decades, particularly since the 1960s. Dr. Erba shares insights on the complexities of modern relationships, including the rise of singlehood, changing gender roles, and the impact of technology on dating. The conversation also touches on historical perspectives of love and marriage, revealing how cultural norms have shaped personal relationships today.