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Relationships and Love May 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Audrey Clark, Barbara Katz Nelson, Giullian Gioiello, John Coltrane, Kevin O'Donoghue, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love and relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological aspects that often lead to confusion and pain. He delves into the differences in how men and women experience love, the impact of neediness, and the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships and the common pitfalls that can arise from desperation and unrealistic expectations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can navigate the intricacies of love more effectively.

Sexuality and Human Evolution June 4, 2013

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this special two-hour episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of human sexuality alongside guest Roberta Maria Ati. They discuss various theories regarding female orgasm, including the poleaxe theory, upsuck theory, and cuddle theory, and how these relate to human reproductive behavior. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the differences in sexual behavior between genders, and the societal implications of these evolutionary traits. The episode aims to shed light on the intricate relationship between sexuality, reproduction, and human evolution.

Jealousy and Possessiveness September 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of jealousy and possessiveness in relationships. He discusses how introspection can help individuals understand their feelings and reactions, particularly in the context of romantic relationships. The conversation touches on childhood behaviors, societal expectations, and the impact of technology on possessiveness. Armand and his guest, Stephanie D’Ambra, delve into the nuances of these emotions, questioning whether a certain level of jealousy is natural or harmful. They also examine how possessiveness can manifest differently in men and women, and the cultural implications of these feelings.

Hormones and Addiction April 13, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Emily Anthes, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the fascinating relationship between hormones and addiction, particularly focusing on how estrogen affects addiction in women. Joined by science writer Emily Anthes, they explore recent research that reveals significant differences in how addiction manifests in men and women due to hormonal influences. The conversation delves into the evolutionary aspects of addiction, the role of hormones like progesterone and testosterone, and the implications for treatment and understanding of addiction in both genders. The episode highlights the need for gender-specific approaches in addiction treatment and the evolving understanding of parental roles in the context of hormonal changes.

Understanding Love and Neediness March 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the often painful nature of neediness in relationships. He discusses how men and women experience love differently, with men typically feeling a sense of need before securing a partner, while women often feel it afterward. DeMille delves into the idea that love can sometimes feel like an addiction, leading individuals to chase after unavailable partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and avoid the pitfalls of desperation and neediness.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder August 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), exploring its origins, symptoms, and the societal implications surrounding its diagnosis. He delves into the historical context of PTSD, particularly in relation to war and trauma, and examines how different individuals experience and process trauma. The conversation highlights the challenges of distinguishing between genuine PTSD and other emotional disturbances, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma’s effects on mental health. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the broader implications of trauma in society.

Thermal Wars and Human Relationships February 28, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the fascinating topic of thermal regulation and its impact on human relationships. They explore how individuals experience temperature differently based on factors such as gender, body composition, and hormonal changes. The discussion highlights the importance of accommodation in relationships, particularly during challenging times like menopause. Through anecdotes and scientific insights, they emphasize the need for understanding and adapting to each other’s unique sensitivities, whether it be regarding temperature, noise levels, or emotional pain. This episode serves as a reminder of the complexities of human interaction and the essential role of empathy and compromise in maintaining healthy relationships.

End Deposit of Mind December 7, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ostracism, drawing parallels between personal experiences and societal behaviors. He reflects on the historical context of ostracism in ancient Greece and its implications in modern society. Through various anecdotes and listener calls, the conversation explores how ostracism affects individuals, particularly in relation to race, gender, and personal identity. DeMille emphasizes the emotional pain caused by exclusion and the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings in ourselves and others.

Dating Dynamics May 4, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nuances of dating, focusing on the importance of communication in friendships and relationships. He explores how different genders approach conversation, highlighting that women often enjoy deeper discussions while men may prefer brief exchanges. The episode delves into the psychological aspects of communication, including how conversation can affect serotonin levels and emotional well-being. Armand also takes calls from listeners, addressing their personal experiences with dating and communication, providing insights into how to navigate these dynamics effectively.

Space and Human Behavior January 18, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the multifaceted concept of space, discussing its significance in human behavior and social interactions. They delve into various types of space, including personal, public, and intimate spaces, and how these affect our relationships and feelings of safety. The hosts examine studies on proxemics, the psychological implications of crowded environments, and the evolution of workspace design, such as cubicles. Through engaging anecdotes and observations, they highlight how our perceptions of space influence our daily lives and interactions with others.