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Understanding Your Three Instincts December 27, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the three fundamental instincts that shape human behavior: self-preservation, social, and sexual. He discusses how these instincts influence our relationships and interactions, particularly during social gatherings and personal connections. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding which instinct dominates our lives, as this knowledge can lead to better self-awareness and healthier relationships. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, he highlights the balance needed between these instincts for a fulfilling life.

Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of communication between men and women, highlighting the inherent differences in their conversational styles. He discusses how men often seek to establish status through conversation, while women use dialogue to create intimacy. The episode features insights from Dr. Deborah Tannen’s research on communication patterns, emphasizing the misunderstandings that arise when men and women interact. Listeners are encouraged to appreciate these differences and find common ground in their relationships.

Exploring Relationship Dynamics Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Ora Yemini Morrison

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele, along with guests Ora Yemini Morrison and Giullian Gioiello, delve into the complexities of relationships. They explore various types of relationships, from competitive and dominant-submissive dynamics to love-based and friendship-oriented connections. The discussion highlights how relationships can evolve over time, often shifting from one type to another. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship patterns and the emotional dynamics at play. The episode also touches on the impact of cultural differences and personal experiences on relationship dynamics, inviting callers to share their stories and insights.

Ideas on Relationships and Their Seasons Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept that people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. He discusses how relationships can change over time, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the nature of these connections. Through various examples, he illustrates how some individuals are present to fulfill specific needs, while others may only be temporary companions. The conversation delves into the emotional complexities of relationships, including the challenges of letting go and the significance of gratitude for past experiences. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the lessons learned.

Lessons for Psychotherapists Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the unique insights gained from the practice of psychotherapy and how they can be applied to everyday life. He emphasizes the importance of personal knowledge and self-awareness in fostering positive change. DeMille introduces the concept of ‘criminal intention’—the hidden motivations behind our actions that often lead to dysfunctional relationships. Through personal anecdotes and examples, he encourages listeners to explore their own intentions and the impact they have on their lives and relationships. This episode serves as a guide for self-discovery and understanding the deeper layers of our behavior.

Holiday Connections and Disconnections Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of human connections during the holiday season. He reflects on personal experiences of connection and disconnection, particularly in family dynamics, and discusses the yearning many people have for deeper relationships. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into feelings of alienation and the struggle to connect in a world where many feel isolated. The episode encourages listeners to examine their own connections and consider the importance of community and understanding in fostering relationships.

Chemistry of Love and Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Darlene, Demetrius, Jeremy Shockley, Monroe, Tommy Thompson

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating intersection of chemistry and human relationships, focusing on the bonding hormone oxytocin. He discusses how oxytocin influences feelings of love, trust, and connection, while also revealing its potential to alienate individuals from others outside their close relationships. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand delves into personal experiences and the complexities of love, attachment, and the impact of familial bonds. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the dynamics of emotional connections.

Gift Certificates as Unique Gifts Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of gift certificates as a thoughtful and personal way to show you care. He shares creative ideas for services that can be offered as gifts, such as babysitting, cooking meals, or providing transportation. Armand encourages listeners to think about what gifts would resonate with their loved ones and to consider the emotional value of giving rather than focusing solely on material items. He emphasizes the importance of connection and the joy of giving gifts that come from the heart.

Honoring Others Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Catherine, Dario, Dr. Scott Baum, Giullian Gioiello, Jason, Jay, Ling, Marie Antoinette

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of honoring others by speaking positively about them, inspired by a program from Joel Osteen. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the good in people, both directly and indirectly, and contrasts this with the tendency to gossip negatively. The conversation explores how positive affirmations can strengthen relationships and create a supportive community. Listeners are encouraged to practice honoring others in their daily lives, highlighting the simplicity and impact of kind words and actions.

Paradoxes of Life Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Mind-Body Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the paradoxes inherent in life, from the allure of wealth and fame to the unexpected consequences of medical advancements. They discuss how achieving one’s dreams can lead to unforeseen challenges, such as the loss of friendships or the burden of fame. The conversation delves into various medical paradoxes, including the surprising outcomes of weight loss surgery and the unintended effects of antidepressants. Through humor and insightful anecdotes, they highlight the complexities of human experience and the contradictions that often accompany our desires.