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Noble Self and Positive Intentions December 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Stephanie Roth about the concept of the ‘noble self’—the inner hero within each individual. They explore how focusing on positive intentions behind seemingly dysfunctional behaviors can lead to personal growth and understanding. Roth emphasizes the importance of uncovering the noble self in various situations, including overspending, addiction, and even infidelity, by recognizing the underlying motivations and desires that drive these actions. The conversation encourages listeners to approach their challenges with compassion and a focus on wellness rather than judgment.

Denial and Its Impact on Life November 28, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychological phenomenon of denial and its pervasive impact on various aspects of life, including relationships, addiction, and personal responsibility. He discusses different forms of denial, such as denial of fact, responsibility, and impact, and how they manifest in everyday situations. Through engaging examples and anecdotes, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing denial in oneself and others, emphasizing that understanding this defense mechanism is crucial for personal growth and healing. The episode also touches on the societal acceptance of denial and its consequences.

Stealing and Deception August 23, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of stealing and deception, examining their prevalence in human behavior and nature. He discusses how deception is a natural part of life, drawing parallels between animal behavior and human actions. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights the moral dilemmas surrounding theft, whether it’s taking physical items or emotional connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with stealing and the motivations behind such actions, ultimately fostering a deeper understanding of human nature.

Affairs, Relationships, and Healing May 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of infidelity in relationships, addressing the emotional turmoil that arises when one partner discovers the other has cheated. He explores the statistics surrounding affairs, the psychological impact on both partners, and the societal factors that contribute to infidelity. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of jealousy, betrayal, and the potential for healing after such a traumatic experience. He encourages listeners to seek support and to focus on personal growth, rather than demanding details or placing blame. The episode serves as a guide for navigating the difficult terrain of relationships affected by infidelity.

Resiliency and Letting Go December 26, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of psychological resiliency, especially during challenging times like the holiday season. He emphasizes the need to manage stress, maintain a positive attitude, and intentionally participate in life. Armand explores how unresolved grudges can weigh us down and offers insights on letting go of past grievances to foster a healthier mindset. Through listener calls, he addresses personal struggles with anger, self-acceptance, and the process of forgiveness, encouraging individuals to release burdens and embrace change as the new year approaches.

Love Regrets November 16, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the regrets that often accompany romantic relationships. He discusses various types of love, including storgic, agapic, manic, pragmatic, and erotic love, and how unresolved childhood issues can manifest in adult relationships. Through listener calls, he delves into personal experiences of regret, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and growth in navigating love. The show encourages reflection on past relationships and the lessons learned, ultimately guiding listeners towards a more positive mindset in their love lives.

Creating a Feeling of Home September 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of creating a welcoming environment that fosters connection and belonging. He emphasizes the significance of greeting loved ones when they arrive home and encourages listeners to make everyone feel important. Armand shares practical tips for entertaining, such as bringing thoughtful gifts and the value of outdoor meals. He also addresses the challenges of family dynamics, the importance of acknowledging bad moods, and the need to let go of grudges. Throughout the conversation, he highlights the essence of family bonds and the joy of being present with one another.

Ghosts in Our Lives August 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘ghosts’—the memories and past relationships that linger in our lives. He discusses how these ghosts can manifest as feelings of regret, longing, or even anger, and how they affect our current relationships. Armand delves into the psychological implications of holding onto these memories and the emotional turmoil they can cause. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own ghosts and consider whether they want to keep them or let them go. The show invites personal stories and insights about the ghosts that haunt us.

Kindness August 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound concept of kindness, discussing its significance in human relationships and society. He delves into the attributes that contribute to a well-balanced individual, including wisdom, courage, humanity, and justice. Armand emphasizes the importance of being connected to others and how acts of kindness can foster community and belonging. He reflects on personal experiences and the challenges that prevent kindness, such as fear, jealousy, and greed. Throughout the discussion, he encourages listeners to recognize opportunities for kindness in their daily lives and to cultivate a more compassionate world.

Punishment and the Fear of Being Punished June 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between punishment and the psychological fears that stem from childhood experiences. He discusses how individuals often carry a sense of impending punishment throughout their lives, affecting their mental health and relationships. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal stories that illustrate how fears of abandonment, control, and self-worth are intertwined with past traumas. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding these fears to lead a more positively minded life.