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Mother’s Day Reflections May 4, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding Mother’s Day, discussing the impact of maternal relationships on mental health. He shares insights from his experience training therapists and highlights the importance of addressing feelings towards mothers, whether they are alive or deceased. Through listener calls, the show delves into personal memories, the challenges of estrangement, and the bittersweet nature of celebrating motherhood. Armand encourages listeners to confront their feelings and engage in meaningful conversations about their relationships with their mothers.

Haiti and Gestalt Therapy January 13, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the resilience of the Haitian people in the face of adversity, particularly following devastating earthquakes. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing ‘unfinished business’ in our lives through Gestalt therapy, which encourages individuals to take ownership of their feelings and experiences. Armand discusses various psychological concepts, including retroflexion, deflection, and projection, and how they manifest in our relationships. He encourages listeners to communicate from a place of vulnerability and self-awareness, rather than blame. The episode also touches on the significance of personal growth and the impact of our past on present behaviors.

Exploring Life’s Patterns and Connections September 8, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of life, discussing the recurring patterns that people often face and the underlying reasons behind them. He explores the concepts of nature versus nurture, questioning how much of our behavior is determined by our genetics and early experiences. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and understanding our sensitivities when interacting with others. He encourages listeners to reflect on their past and how it shapes their present relationships, ultimately guiding them towards a more positive mindset.

Trust and Trustworthiness June 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of trust and trustworthiness. He discusses the psychological need to trust others and the challenges of being seen as trustworthy. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights how trust can be manipulated and the importance of integrity in relationships. Armand also addresses the difficulties faced by individuals who struggle with trust due to past experiences and societal influences. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own trust issues and the qualities that make someone trustworthy.

Communicating Feelings April 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of communicating feelings in relationships. He discusses the challenges people face when trying to express their emotions and the often egocentric nature of communication. Through various callers, Armand highlights the importance of understanding feelings, the need for safety in communication, and the difficulties that arise when feelings are not adequately expressed. He emphasizes that true communication is more about translation than mere words and encourages listeners to embrace their emotions while fostering deeper connections with others.

Memory, Love, and the Stories We Tell Ourselves March 5, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of memory and its profound impact on our understanding of love. He discusses how memories can be distorted over time, leading to misconceptions about past experiences and relationships. Through various examples and listener interactions, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing how our memories shape our definitions of love and connection. The episode delves into the psychological aspects of memory recall, emphasizing that our recollections may not always be accurate and can influence our present relationships in unexpected ways.

When You’re Falling, Dive June 25, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Mark Matusik

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele interviews author Mark Matusik about his book ‘When You’re Falling, Dive.’ The conversation explores themes of survival, resilience, and the transformative power of grief. Matusik shares his personal journey through loss and illness, as well as stories from others who have faced profound challenges. The discussion emphasizes the importance of surrendering to life’s difficulties and finding strength in vulnerability. Matusik’s insights reveal how embracing our struggles can lead to deeper self-awareness and gratitude for life.

Father’s Day Reflections June 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fatherhood and the emotional impact fathers have on their children. With Father’s Day approaching, he discusses the often unresolved feelings many individuals harbor towards their fathers, including anger, disappointment, and longing for connection. Through personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand encourages reflection on the nature of fathering, the importance of understanding one’s feelings, and the potential for healing. The conversation delves into various aspects of father-child relationships, emphasizing the significance of both positive and negative experiences in shaping one’s identity.

Eliot Spitzer and the Pressure of Power March 11, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent scandal involving former New York Governor Eliot Spitzer, who allegedly violated the Mann Act by transporting a sex worker across state lines. DeMille explores the psychological pressures faced by politicians and how these pressures can lead to self-destructive behavior. He reflects on the complexities of power, infidelity, and public judgment, encouraging listeners to consider the broader implications of Spitzer’s actions. The conversation also touches on societal attitudes toward infidelity and the media’s role in shaping public perception.

Hatred: An Exploration January 22, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotion of hatred, exploring its roots and implications in our lives. He discusses how hatred differs from anger, emphasizing its deep-seated nature and the impact it has on relationships and self-perception. Through personal anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages a candid examination of this often-taboo emotion, suggesting that understanding hatred can lead to personal growth and emotional healing. The episode also touches on the interplay between love and hatred, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and addressing these feelings.