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Narcissism and Relationships January 6, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of narcissism in relationships with expert Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist.’ They explore the characteristics of narcissistic individuals, the impact on their partners, and strategies for managing these challenging dynamics. Wendy shares insights into recognizing narcissistic traits, the importance of empathy, and how to confront narcissistic behavior while maintaining healthy boundaries. The conversation emphasizes understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and the significance of reinforcing positive behaviors in relationships.

Violence and Its Roots June 17, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of violence, examining its origins and manifestations in both personal and societal contexts. He discusses the impact of childhood experiences, the influence of video games, and the biochemical factors that contribute to violent behavior. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal stories of witnessing violence and the lasting effects it has on individuals. The episode aims to foster understanding and reflection on the nature of violence, encouraging listeners to confront their own feelings and experiences related to aggression.

Birth Order and Its Significance in Various Parts of Your Life April 15, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Stephanie Ross

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating topic of birth order and its impact on personality and relationships. He discusses how a person’s position in the family can predict their behavior, emotional responses, and interactions with others. From only children to firstborns, secondborns, and beyond, each birth order position comes with its unique traits and challenges. Armand also shares insights on how these dynamics play out in relationships, offering listeners a deeper understanding of themselves and their loved ones.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Dutiful Personalities and the Enneagram April 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the Enneagram types associated with dutiful personalities, focusing on the perfectionist (type one), the helper (type two), and the loyalist (type six). The conversation explores the characteristics, motivations, and challenges faced by these personality types. The hosts, Don Riso and Russ Hudson, share insights into how these types navigate their sense of duty, obligation, and the inner conflicts that arise from their perfectionistic tendencies, need for approval, and anxiety about security. They also highlight the potential for growth and the positive contributions these types can make to society.

Getting to the Source of Pain August 1, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone explore the importance of understanding the underlying causes of emotional and physical pain. They discuss the concept of masks people wear to hide their true selves and the complexities of seeking authenticity. The conversation delves into various coping mechanisms, the Enneagram personality types, and the challenges of revealing one’s real self. Through listener calls, they address the struggles of dealing with family dynamics and the impact of deception on relationships. The episode emphasizes the necessity of self-awareness and the courage to confront one’s true feelings.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Evolution of Emotions July 13, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of emotions and their impact on human behavior. He discusses how childhood emotions can persist into adulthood, examining various emotional states such as fear, anger, and anxiety. Drawing on Charles Darwin’s research, he highlights the evolutionary significance of emotions and their expressions. The conversation delves into the complexities of emotional development, the role of social interactions, and the importance of understanding emotional changes over time. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and support in navigating emotional challenges throughout life.

Understanding Paralysis of the Mind and Brain July 21, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Michael Grove, Lauren Sykes, Sherri Siegel

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Sherri Siegel, along with guest Dr. Michael Grove and research assistant Lauren Sykes, explores the complex phenomena of paralysis, both mental and physical. They discuss various forms of psychological paralysis, including writer’s block, perfectionism, and executive dysfunction. The conversation delves into how these conditions manifest, their impact on individuals, and strategies for overcoming them. Listeners are encouraged to recognize their own experiences with paralysis and to understand the importance of movement—both emotional and physical—in leading fulfilling lives.

Sexual Predators and the Abuse of Power April 1, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele addresses the sensitive topic of sexual predators, particularly within religious institutions. He explores the misuse of power by clergy and the systemic issues that allow such abuses to persist. Through a discussion of statistics and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the need for accountability and understanding rather than mere judgment. Armand invites listeners to reflect on the societal and familial factors contributing to the vulnerability of children and the role of organized religion in perpetuating cycles of abuse. The conversation aims to demystify the complexities surrounding these issues while advocating for a more compassionate approach to healing and prevention.