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Secrets June 21, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of secrets and their impact on mental health. He highlights the importance of revealing secrets to alleviate emotional burdens, sharing insights from psychology and personal stories. The conversation touches on how secrets can affect relationships and individual well-being, particularly in the context of trauma and personal experiences. Armand encourages listeners to call in and share their secrets, emphasizing the healing power of openness and honesty.

Truth, Innocence, and the Human Experience April 27, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne O'Connell, Kent Robertshaw, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a deep conversation with guests Kent Robertshaw and Anne O’Connell about the complexities of truth, innocence, and the human experience. They explore themes of gullibility, cynicism, and the importance of psychotherapy in treating mental health issues. The discussion touches on the challenges faced by mental health practitioners in building trust with clients, especially those with histories of substance abuse and trauma. The guests share insights from their experiences in outpatient mental health clinics, emphasizing the need for compassion and understanding in therapy.

Caregiving and Caregetting Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Diana Denholm, John Valerio, Linda Vanella, Lisa Arnone

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with a panel of guests, including Diana Denholm, author of ‘The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook.’ The conversation explores the emotional challenges faced by caregivers, the dynamics of family involvement, and the importance of communication in managing relationships during times of illness. The guests share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate the difficult decisions surrounding caregiving, while emphasizing the need for self-care and the potential for resentment in these roles. The episode aims to provide listeners with practical tools and understanding to foster healthier caregiving relationships.

Idiopathic Craniofacial Erythema Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of shame and embarrassment, particularly in relation to suicide. He discusses the impact of societal expectations and personal experiences on mental health, highlighting the struggles faced by individuals, including Afghan women and Japanese citizens. Through various personal stories and cultural insights, the episode delves into how shame can lead to self-destructive behaviors and the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with shame and to seek connection and support.

Whip Smart Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melissa Febos

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Melissa Febos, author of ‘Whip Smart,’ a memoir detailing her experiences as a professional dominatrix in Manhattan. The conversation explores the complexities of power dynamics, the psychology behind BDSM, and the societal perceptions of sex work. Febos shares insights into her journey of self-discovery, the emotional intricacies of her clients, and the blurred lines between empowerment and exploitation in the sex industry. The discussion also touches on the therapeutic aspects of her work and the impact it had on her personal relationships and understanding of intimacy.

A Parent’s Responsibility to Protect Their Child Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Molly Carmel, Sherri Siegel

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, hosts Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel discuss the complex issue of childhood obesity and parental responsibility. They explore recent legal cases where parents faced charges of neglect due to their children’s extreme weight. The conversation delves into the biological, psychological, and sociological factors contributing to obesity, emphasizing the importance of understanding rather than shaming parents. Guest Molly Carmel, an eating disorder specialist, shares insights on the challenges parents face in managing their children’s weight and the need for supportive, non-judgmental approaches. The episode highlights the delicate balance parents must strike in guiding their children’s health without resorting to punitive measures.

Asking for Help Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of asking for help and the psychological barriers that often prevent individuals from reaching out. He discusses the fears of surrender, shame, and separation that contribute to the reluctance to seek assistance. Drawing on insights from psychology, particularly Carl Jung’s archetypes, Armand delves into the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of vulnerability and dependency. Through anecdotes and listener calls, he highlights the importance of recognizing our needs and the transformative power of compassion, both for ourselves and others.