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Understanding Rejection and Giving July 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Jamie, Sandra Reischus

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding rejection and the dynamics of giving and receiving. He discusses how early childhood experiences shape our perceptions of relationships and the feelings of rejection that often stem from them. Through engaging conversations with guests, Armand delves into the psychological aspects of giving, the discomfort some feel when receiving gifts, and the impact of personal histories on these interactions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and the importance of understanding emotions beyond surface-level perceptions.

Soccer’s Impact on American Culture July 15, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent surge of interest in soccer in the United States, particularly during the World Cup. He explores the psychological factors that draw people to sports, including the need for status, affiliation, and meaning. With insights from co-host Giullian Gioiello, they examine how social media has influenced fan engagement and the emotional connections fans develop with teams. The conversation also touches on the darker aspects of fandom, including the potential for violence and the psychological impact of losses on fans. This episode delves into the complex relationship between sports, identity, and community.

Getting to Know You July 9, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and the challenge of truly knowing oneself and others. He discusses the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the fear of rejection that often prevents individuals from being fully open. Through engaging dialogue with his guest Giullian Gioiello and callers, Armand emphasizes the need for genuine connections and the role of therapy in understanding oneself. The conversation touches on the concept of ‘grokking’—a deep understanding of another person—and how it relates to love and acceptance in relationships.

Rejection September 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of rejection and its impact on our lives. He explores how rejection is often perceived as a negative experience, leading to feelings of worthlessness and disappointment. However, he argues that rejection is not an emotion but a perception of someone’s behavior. DeMille encourages listeners to examine their feelings and reactions to rejection, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and understanding. He also delves into the roots of creativity and how it can be stifled by societal expectations, urging listeners to embrace their creative spirit as a means of personal growth and fulfillment.

Being Honest Without Hurting Feelings September 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the delicate balance between being truthful and being sensitive to others’ feelings. He explores how the fear of hurting loved ones can lead to dishonesty and emotional disconnect. Through various examples, he highlights the importance of self-awareness and the consequences of not being true to oneself. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the impact of their honesty or lack thereof. Ultimately, the conversation aims to foster understanding and promote healthier communication in personal connections.

Worrying: Understanding the Roots and Effects April 18, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nature of worrying, its origins, and its impact on our lives. He discusses how worrying can stem from deep-seated fears of abandonment and rejection, often rooted in childhood experiences. DeMille highlights the maladaptive schemas that contribute to a person’s tendency to worry and the psychological traps that can ensnare individuals. He emphasizes that while concern can be healthy, excessive worry is unproductive and can hinder problem-solving abilities. The episode encourages listeners to understand their worries and find healthier ways to cope.

Fear of Close Relationships October 4, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the reasons behind people’s fear of forming close relationships. He discusses how past experiences and childhood conditioning can lead to a reluctance to love and connect with others. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing these fears and understanding that love should not be equated with pain or control. He encourages listeners to confront their fears and to seek healthier, more fulfilling relationships. The episode also touches on the dynamics of control in relationships and the role of victimhood in emotional connections.

Fear and Its Many Forms August 9, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the pervasive nature of fear and its various manifestations, from general apprehension to specific phobias and paranoia. Drawing from his experience on Wall Street, he explores how fear can arise from perceived threats, both external and internal. The conversation delves into the impact of fear on personal relationships, trust, and decision-making, highlighting the fine line between healthy caution and debilitating anxiety. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own fears and the role they play in their lives.

Mindset February 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Carol Dweck, a renowned psychologist and author of ‘Mindset.’ They explore the concepts of fixed and growth mindsets, discussing how these perspectives influence personal development, relationships, and reactions to challenges. Dweck emphasizes the importance of fostering a growth mindset in children to help them embrace challenges and learn from failures. The conversation also touches on the implications of mindset in various contexts, including education, parenting, and even societal issues like bullying. Through engaging dialogue, the episode highlights how mindset shapes our experiences and interactions.

Rejection Sensitivity July 16, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of rejection sensitivity, discussing how individuals react to feelings of rejection in their social lives. He delves into the psychological and biological aspects of rejection, explaining how it can lead to anxiety, depression, and a distorted self-image. The show highlights the importance of understanding one’s sensitivity to rejection and how it affects relationships. Armand also shares insights on how societal changes may be contributing to increased rejection sensitivity among individuals today. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and consider ways to cope and build resilience.