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Getting to Know You July 9, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and the challenge of truly knowing oneself and others. He discusses the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the fear of rejection that often prevents individuals from being fully open. Through engaging dialogue with his guest Giullian Gioiello and callers, Armand emphasizes the need for genuine connections and the role of therapy in understanding oneself. The conversation touches on the concept of ‘grokking’—a deep understanding of another person—and how it relates to love and acceptance in relationships.

Performance Anxiety and Public Speaking June 26, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Natalie H. Rogers

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Natalie H. Rogers about overcoming performance anxiety and the importance of effective public speaking. Natalie, a licensed clinical social worker and author of ‘The New Talk Power,’ shares insights on techniques to manage anxiety, including proper breathing, body awareness, and the significance of structure in communication. They discuss how performance anxiety can affect individuals in various situations, from job interviews to public presentations, and provide practical tips for building confidence in speaking. The conversation emphasizes the need for training and practice to develop effective communication skills.

Understanding Transitional Objects and Sensitivity January 30, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological concept of transitional objects and how they relate to grief and relationships. He explores the emotional complexities that arise when individuals experience loss, particularly in the context of divorce and the death of loved ones. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand highlights the importance of being sensitive and compassionate in relationships, emphasizing the need for understanding and support. The conversation also touches on the role of music and memories as transitional objects that can evoke deep feelings and connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with grief and the significance of transitional figures in their lives.

Graduate Class in Positive Psychology June 19, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of human behavior, particularly focusing on dependency and independence in relationships. They discuss the challenges faced by individuals with dependent personality traits, exploring how these traits manifest in therapy and everyday life. Through engaging dialogue, they emphasize the importance of understanding oneself and others without judgment, highlighting the significance of compassion and connection in fostering personal growth. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of relationships, the role of therapists, and the journey towards self-discovery and empowerment.

Celebrating Different Perspectives April 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joanna, John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of perceiving life without judgment, emphasizing that not everything needs to be viewed positively. He discusses the importance of recognizing the strength in our perceived weaknesses, such as depression and paranoia, and how these feelings can serve a purpose in our lives. Through various examples, including a little girl’s drawing and personal anecdotes, Armand encourages listeners to embrace their complexities and celebrate their unique perspectives. The episode also features a birthday celebration for Joanna and insights into the power dynamics in relationships.

Reactions to Catastrophe March 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Amhara, Anthony, Daphne Rose Kingma, Dr. Ronald Fieve, Linda Vanella, Monroe, Pat Moffitt, Vincent

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the varied human reactions to catastrophic events, particularly focusing on the recent disasters in Japan. He explores cultural differences in responses, emphasizing the Japanese values of security and harmony. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into personal experiences of fear, helplessness, and the quest for understanding in the face of tragedy. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own reactions and the importance of compassion in times of crisis.

Extroversion and Introversion August 31, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of extroversion and introversion, discussing their characteristics and differences. Extroverts are outwardly focused and seek external stimulation, while introverts are more inwardly focused and find energy in solitude. The conversation highlights the complexities of personality types, including ambiversion, and how these traits manifest in daily life and relationships. Listeners are encouraged to appreciate these differences to foster understanding and harmony in their interactions.

Sexual Predators and the Abuse of Power April 1, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele addresses the sensitive topic of sexual predators, particularly within religious institutions. He explores the misuse of power by clergy and the systemic issues that allow such abuses to persist. Through a discussion of statistics and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the need for accountability and understanding rather than mere judgment. Armand invites listeners to reflect on the societal and familial factors contributing to the vulnerability of children and the role of organized religion in perpetuating cycles of abuse. The conversation aims to demystify the complexities surrounding these issues while advocating for a more compassionate approach to healing and prevention.

Morality and Judgment March 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of morality and judgment, drawing on psychological theories from Freud and Eric Berne. He discusses the id, ego, and superego, and how these concepts influence our understanding of right and wrong. The conversation delves into moral dilemmas, societal judgments, and the impact of neuroscience on our ethical decisions. Through various examples, including controversial topics like war and personal relationships, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own moral beliefs and the influences that shape them.

Noble Self and Positive Intentions December 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Stephanie Roth about the concept of the ‘noble self’—the inner hero within each individual. They explore how focusing on positive intentions behind seemingly dysfunctional behaviors can lead to personal growth and understanding. Roth emphasizes the importance of uncovering the noble self in various situations, including overspending, addiction, and even infidelity, by recognizing the underlying motivations and desires that drive these actions. The conversation encourages listeners to approach their challenges with compassion and a focus on wellness rather than judgment.