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Exploring Drama in Life January 13, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anthony, Beverly, Dennis, Dr. Annalisa Erba, Giullian Gioiello, Jeff Kitchen, Jonathan Raskin

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of human emotions and relationships, drawing parallels between life and dramatic situations. He discusses the nature of drama in our lives, the regrets we harbor, and the planning we engage in as humans. Through engaging conversations with listeners, he explores themes of love, loss, and the search for meaning. Armand emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our feelings and the dramatic situations we find ourselves in, encouraging listeners to confront their emotions and seek resolution. The episode also touches on the impact of past relationships and the journey toward self-love and acceptance.

Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Men and Their Relationships June 12, 2013

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of men’s relationships with themselves, their mothers, and romantic partners. He delves into the societal expectations placed on men, the impact of testosterone on behavior, and the struggles men face in navigating intimacy and vulnerability. The discussion highlights the internal conflicts that arise from traditional masculinity, including the fear of commitment and emotional expression. DeMille encourages listeners to understand these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Games and Life Scripts April 30, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Claude Steiner

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of games and life scripts, exploring how childhood experiences shape adult behavior and relationships. He is joined by Dr. Claude Steiner, an expert in transactional analysis, who explains how people often repeat negative patterns in their interactions, leading to emotional games like ‘uproar’ and ‘do me something.’ The conversation delves into the importance of recognizing these scripts and the potential for change through awareness and emotional literacy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own patterns and consider how they can foster healthier relationships.

Worrying: Understanding the Roots and Effects April 18, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nature of worrying, its origins, and its impact on our lives. He discusses how worrying can stem from deep-seated fears of abandonment and rejection, often rooted in childhood experiences. DeMille highlights the maladaptive schemas that contribute to a person’s tendency to worry and the psychological traps that can ensnare individuals. He emphasizes that while concern can be healthy, excessive worry is unproductive and can hinder problem-solving abilities. The episode encourages listeners to understand their worries and find healthier ways to cope.

Mindset February 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Carol Dweck, a renowned psychologist and author of ‘Mindset.’ They explore the concepts of fixed and growth mindsets, discussing how these perspectives influence personal development, relationships, and reactions to challenges. Dweck emphasizes the importance of fostering a growth mindset in children to help them embrace challenges and learn from failures. The conversation also touches on the implications of mindset in various contexts, including education, parenting, and even societal issues like bullying. Through engaging dialogue, the episode highlights how mindset shapes our experiences and interactions.

Abandonment Rage February 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotions surrounding love and abandonment, particularly focusing on the phenomenon of abandonment rage. He discusses how feelings of abandonment can lead to intense emotional reactions, including depression and rage, and explores the psychological implications of these feelings. The conversation includes insights on the chemistry of love, the impact of loss, and the ways individuals cope with the end of relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and loss, and how these emotions manifest in their lives.

Irrationality and Expectations July 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Dan Ariely

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of irrationality with behavioral economist Dr. Dan Ariely, author of ‘Predictably Irrational.’ They explore how expectations shape our experiences, particularly in the context of placebos and the psychology behind pain relief. Ariely shares personal anecdotes from his time in a burn unit and discusses the surprising effects of price and origin on perceived medication efficacy. The conversation delves into the complexities of human behavior, including the fear of abandonment and the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our irrational tendencies.

Intimacy and Connection January 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and connection in relationships. He addresses common questions about how close is too close and the nature of real intimacy. Drawing on personal anecdotes and psychological insights, he discusses the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the fear of abandonment, and the importance of being genuine in emotional connections. Armand emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding in fostering intimacy, while also acknowledging the challenges that arise from past traumas. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and to seek deeper connections with others.

Ghosts in Our Lives August 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘ghosts’—the memories and past relationships that linger in our lives. He discusses how these ghosts can manifest as feelings of regret, longing, or even anger, and how they affect our current relationships. Armand delves into the psychological implications of holding onto these memories and the emotional turmoil they can cause. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own ghosts and consider whether they want to keep them or let them go. The show invites personal stories and insights about the ghosts that haunt us.