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Hatred: An Exploration January 22, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotion of hatred, exploring its roots and implications in our lives. He discusses how hatred differs from anger, emphasizing its deep-seated nature and the impact it has on relationships and self-perception. Through personal anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages a candid examination of this often-taboo emotion, suggesting that understanding hatred can lead to personal growth and emotional healing. The episode also touches on the interplay between love and hatred, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and addressing these feelings.

Winding Down the Year December 27, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the challenges and burdens we carry into the new year, using the metaphor of Mr. Bean’s outhouse to illustrate the invisible shields we create to protect ourselves from emotional pain. He discusses the importance of recognizing these burdens and how they shape our lives, while encouraging listeners to embrace their struggles rather than hide them. With calls from listeners sharing their experiences, the conversation delves into themes of acceptance, connection, and the journey toward a more positive mindset.

Noble Self and Positive Intentions December 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Stephanie Roth about the concept of the ‘noble self’—the inner hero within each individual. They explore how focusing on positive intentions behind seemingly dysfunctional behaviors can lead to personal growth and understanding. Roth emphasizes the importance of uncovering the noble self in various situations, including overspending, addiction, and even infidelity, by recognizing the underlying motivations and desires that drive these actions. The conversation encourages listeners to approach their challenges with compassion and a focus on wellness rather than judgment.

Organizing Around the Holidays December 5, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Marsha Ramsland

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses holiday organization with expert Marsha Ramsland. They explore the psychological aspects of holiday stress, particularly how anger can manifest in over-organization. Marsha shares practical tips for simplifying holiday preparations, including creating gift lists, setting themes for gifts, and scheduling time for holiday tasks. The conversation emphasizes the importance of organization in reducing stress and enhancing enjoyment during the festive season. Listeners are encouraged to adopt simple strategies to create a more organized and joyful holiday experience.

Perfectionism and Its Impact December 4, 2007

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of perfectionism, discussing its roots in indirect aggression and societal pressures. He highlights how perfectionism can manifest in various forms, including self-oriented, socially prescribed, and other-oriented perfectionism. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of striving for perfection, particularly during the holiday season, and emphasizes the importance of embracing imperfections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own perfectionistic tendencies and consider the impact of these behaviors on their relationships and mental well-being.

Denial and Its Impact on Life November 28, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychological phenomenon of denial and its pervasive impact on various aspects of life, including relationships, addiction, and personal responsibility. He discusses different forms of denial, such as denial of fact, responsibility, and impact, and how they manifest in everyday situations. Through engaging examples and anecdotes, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing denial in oneself and others, emphasizing that understanding this defense mechanism is crucial for personal growth and healing. The episode also touches on the societal acceptance of denial and its consequences.

Inheritance Neurosis September 25, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Tripp Evans, Kent Robertshaw

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological impacts of wealth and inheritance, particularly focusing on the concept of ‘inheritance neurosis.’ Joined by Kent Robertshaw and Dr. Tripp Evans, they explore how the anticipation of receiving an inheritance can lead to feelings of entitlement, lack of motivation, and emotional deprivation among heirs. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships affected by wealth, the societal perceptions of the rich, and the emotional struggles faced by those who grow up in affluent families. The hosts emphasize the importance of fostering independence and self-worth in children, regardless of their financial background.

Stealing and Deception August 23, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of stealing and deception, examining their prevalence in human behavior and nature. He discusses how deception is a natural part of life, drawing parallels between animal behavior and human actions. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights the moral dilemmas surrounding theft, whether it’s taking physical items or emotional connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with stealing and the motivations behind such actions, ultimately fostering a deeper understanding of human nature.

Exploring Midlife Crisis and Relationships July 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various psychological insights related to midlife crises, relationships, and societal beliefs. He examines recent research linking midlife crises in men to their wives’ experiences with menopause, challenging politically correct notions. The conversation also touches on the implications of polygamy in different cultures, the motivations behind sexual relationships, and the emotional burdens carried by individuals. DeMille invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and encourages open dialogue about these complex topics.

Exploring Sarcasm July 10, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex nature of sarcasm, examining its psychological implications and effects on relationships. He discusses how sarcasm can serve as a defense mechanism, reflecting anger and insecurity, while also highlighting its connection to intelligence. Through insights from recent neural research, DeMille explains how sarcasm operates in the brain and its potential to harm interpersonal connections. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own use of sarcasm and its impact on their lives and relationships.