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Mother’s Day Reflections May 4, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding Mother’s Day, discussing the impact of maternal relationships on mental health. He shares insights from his experience training therapists and highlights the importance of addressing feelings towards mothers, whether they are alive or deceased. Through listener calls, the show delves into personal memories, the challenges of estrangement, and the bittersweet nature of celebrating motherhood. Armand encourages listeners to confront their feelings and engage in meaningful conversations about their relationships with their mothers.

Hormones and Addiction April 13, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Emily Anthes, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the fascinating relationship between hormones and addiction, particularly focusing on how estrogen affects addiction in women. Joined by science writer Emily Anthes, they explore recent research that reveals significant differences in how addiction manifests in men and women due to hormonal influences. The conversation delves into the evolutionary aspects of addiction, the role of hormones like progesterone and testosterone, and the implications for treatment and understanding of addiction in both genders. The episode highlights the need for gender-specific approaches in addiction treatment and the evolving understanding of parental roles in the context of hormonal changes.

Sexual Predators and the Abuse of Power April 1, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele addresses the sensitive topic of sexual predators, particularly within religious institutions. He explores the misuse of power by clergy and the systemic issues that allow such abuses to persist. Through a discussion of statistics and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the need for accountability and understanding rather than mere judgment. Armand invites listeners to reflect on the societal and familial factors contributing to the vulnerability of children and the role of organized religion in perpetuating cycles of abuse. The conversation aims to demystify the complexities surrounding these issues while advocating for a more compassionate approach to healing and prevention.

Organizing and Clutter March 9, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Tako, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of organizing and clutter with expert Barbara Tako, author of ‘Clutter Clearing Choices.’ They explore the different types of clutter—physical, mental, emotional, and relational—and how it can affect our lives. Barbara shares insights on when clutter becomes problematic and offers practical strategies for decluttering, including the four-box method. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of clutter, including its ties to feelings of safety and the impact of consumerism. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own clutter and consider how it may relate to their emotional well-being.

Abandonment Rage February 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotions surrounding love and abandonment, particularly focusing on the phenomenon of abandonment rage. He discusses how feelings of abandonment can lead to intense emotional reactions, including depression and rage, and explores the psychological implications of these feelings. The conversation includes insights on the chemistry of love, the impact of loss, and the ways individuals cope with the end of relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and loss, and how these emotions manifest in their lives.

Exploring Emotions and Their Impact January 19, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexity of human emotions, discussing the six basic emotions: joy, sadness, anger, fear, surprise, and disgust. He explores how emotions are interconnected with our personal histories and the importance of recognizing and expressing them. The conversation touches on the addition of newer emotions like elevation and interest, and how they play a role in our lives. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with emotions and how they relate to their upbringing and societal influences. The episode also invites callers to share their thoughts and feelings, fostering a community dialogue about emotional well-being.

Feeling Trapped September 10, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of feeling trapped, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and adult relationships. He discusses the impact of caretaking roles assumed by children in dysfunctional families, especially those with mentally ill parents. Through various callers’ stories, the show delves into the psychological complexities of growing up in such environments, the challenges of adult life, and the importance of recognizing and addressing past traumas. Armand emphasizes the need for self-care and understanding one’s own needs while navigating relationships and responsibilities.

Caregiving: Perspectives and Challenges September 9, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: David Travland, Rhonda Travland, Sherri Siegel

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with Sherri Siegel and authors Rhonda and David Travland. They explore the emotional and physical toll on caregivers, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for self-care. The Travlands share their personal experiences with caregiving, including the challenges of managing chronic illness and the impact on relationships. They emphasize the significance of open communication and mutual support between caregivers and care recipients, highlighting the necessity of addressing both parties’ needs to maintain a healthy dynamic.

Listening with the Special Ear July 2, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nuances of human interaction, emphasizing the importance of listening to subtle cues in conversations. He discusses how seemingly benign comments can reveal deeper issues and the significance of being aware of our surroundings and the people we engage with. Through various anecdotes and examples, he illustrates how our perceptions can be influenced by our desires and fears. DeMille also touches on psychological phenomena like the nocebo effect and cultural beliefs that shape our understanding of mental health. The episode encourages listeners to ask questions and seek deeper connections without judgment.

Recreation and Repetition June 4, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of recreation as a means of self-reinvention and the importance of repetition in our lives. He discusses how both humans and animals engage in repetitive behaviors for pleasure and fulfillment, from exercise routines to musical patterns. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand emphasizes that understanding our own patterns of repetition can lead to greater self-awareness and personal growth. The conversation touches on the balance between routine and creativity, and the necessity of stepping outside of our comfort zones to truly recreate ourselves.