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Understanding Crazy Makers April 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ‘crazy making’ and the various types of individuals who engage in this behavior. He explores how stressors in life can lead to feelings of nervousness and insecurity, and how some people manipulate others into feeling crazy or insecure. The discussion includes insights into personality types such as self-centered individuals, drama cultivators, and stealth bombers, who all contribute to emotional turmoil in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these behaviors and understand their impact on mental health.

Laziness and Motivation April 7, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychological state of laziness, referred to as ‘abolition,’ characterized by a lack of drive and motivation. He discusses the impact of depression and life transitions, such as graduation and retirement, on one’s motivation. Through various callers, the conversation delves into the struggles of feeling stuck and the importance of finding balance and purpose in life. Armand emphasizes the need for self-advocacy and the power of expressing anger as a means to reconnect with loved ones who may be experiencing lethargy. The episode highlights the significance of taking proactive steps to regain motivation and joy.

Honoring Others and Ourselves December 2, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of honoring others, inspired by a sermon from Joel Osteen. Joined by guests Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello, they explore the significance of recognition and gratitude in everyday interactions. The conversation delves into the nuances of honoring people, including how to express appreciation genuinely and the challenges that come with it. They also touch on the importance of self-honor and how our actions reflect our values. The episode encourages listeners to think about the small gestures of honor they can incorporate into their lives.

Urban Living and the Dance of the City November 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Audrey Clark, Ben Starr, Dr. Austin Hayes, Dr. Eric Mizell, Giullian Gioiello, Karen, Tommy

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele explores the complexities of urban living, particularly in New York City. Joined by co-hosts Ben Starr and guest Audrey Clark, they discuss the fast-paced lifestyle of city dwellers compared to rural living. The conversation delves into the unique challenges and advantages of living in a densely populated area, including the rhythm of life, the multitude of languages spoken, and the impact of urban culture on personal relationships. The episode also touches on the emotional toll of city life and the importance of community connections.

Veterans and the Battles We Face November 11, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of being a veteran, not just in the military sense, but as a metaphor for anyone who has faced and overcome personal struggles. He discusses the importance of recognizing our own battles, whether they be against addiction, illness, or emotional trauma. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the resilience they have shown in the face of adversity. The show emphasizes the power of community and connection in healing and personal growth.

Mindfulness and Emotional Awareness October 1, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of mindfulness and emotional awareness with guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla and Giullian Gioiello. They explore the benefits and pitfalls of mindfulness, emphasizing the importance of processing negative emotions rather than suppressing them. The conversation delves into the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the dangers of triangulation in family dynamics, and the necessity of honesty in personal connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their emotions, confront their past, and seek genuine connections with others.

ADHD Exploration September 17, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests discuss Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), exploring its symptoms, impacts on children and adults, and the importance of understanding and compassion in treatment. The conversation delves into personal experiences with ADHD, the challenges it presents in relationships and daily life, and the potential for creative genius stemming from this condition. The guests share insights on how to support those affected by ADHD, emphasizing the need for patience and emotional security. The episode aims to shed light on the complexities of ADHD and encourage open dialogue about mental health.

Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Childhood Trauma August 13, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of childhood trauma with expert Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella. They explore the impact of early traumatic experiences on children’s emotional development and behavior, drawing parallels between childhood trauma and adult responses to stress. Linda Vanella Vanella shares insights from her work with soldiers suffering from PTSD and emphasizes the importance of caregiver involvement in healing. The conversation highlights the significance of recognizing and expressing feelings, as well as the role of supportive relationships in overcoming trauma. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the lasting effects of childhood trauma.

Leave a Positive Life April 23, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of leading a positive life and the psychological implications of our behaviors under pressure. He discusses the impact of narcissism and emotional abuse, particularly in familial relationships, and how these dynamics shape our identities. Through listener calls, Armand addresses personal struggles with parental relationships, emotional turmoil, and the quest for self-validation. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s internal self and the consequences of unresolved emotional baggage. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences and seek healthier connections.