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Grandchildren and Isolation January 8, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bill Hickok, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests discuss the concept of isolation and its impact on mental health. They explore the benefits of stepping out of isolation into group settings, emphasizing the importance of hope, universality, and social skills. The conversation highlights how group therapy and social environments like coffee houses can foster connection and personal growth. The hosts also touch on the darker side of group dynamics, illustrating how similar social mechanisms can manifest in negative contexts. Ultimately, they advocate for the importance of community and connection in overcoming isolation.

End of 2013 Reflections December 31, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Aileen, Alexandra Beller, Carla, Christina McDowell, Elisa, Giullian Gioiello, Jamie Ross, Linda Vanella, Mariah Haskins, Mark, Mimi, Rashida, Rick

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the year 2013 with guests who share their experiences and impressions of New York City on New Year’s Eve. The discussion touches on personal struggles, the impact of military service on mental health, and the importance of connection and nostalgia. Guests include au pairs from various countries and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, who discusses her work with military personnel dealing with PTSD. The show emphasizes gratitude and the significance of love and support in overcoming challenges.

Family Constellations and Relationships March 13, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Linda Vanella

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of family relationships, emphasizing the impact of our original families on our lives. He discusses the concept of family constellations, the dynamics between parents and children, and the challenges faced by single parents. The conversation delves into the historical context of family structures and how modern laws affect familial connections. Armand invites listeners to reflect on their own family experiences and the importance of questioning inherited beliefs. The episode also features insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and John Valerio, contributing to a rich dialogue about the evolving nature of family.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.

Year-End Reflections on Family and Friends December 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this year-end edition, Armand DiMele explores the significance of resolutions, particularly the common desire to spend more time with family and friends. He discusses the feelings of loneliness and depression that often accompany the holiday season and emphasizes the importance of nurturing connections. Armand reflects on the complexities of friendships and family dynamics, highlighting how relationships can change over time. He encourages listeners to reach out to friends and maintain positive connections, suggesting that meaningful interactions can enhance well-being. As the year closes, he invites everyone to reflect on their relationships and the importance of community.

Secrets We Keep December 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of secrets we keep from ourselves, our families, and our partners. He discusses how societal norms and personal fears can lead to hidden truths that affect our relationships and emotional well-being. Through various examples, including secrets about sexuality and family dynamics, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these hidden aspects of our lives. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own secrets and the impact they have on their lives and relationships.

End of Year Reflections December 31, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Akilah, Alex, Debbie, Joanne, Juana, Lauren Sykes, Lynn, Tony Thomas

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages listeners in a reflective survey about their experiences in 2009. He invites callers to share their thoughts on the past year, discussing both positive and negative experiences. From personal triumphs to challenges, the callers express a range of emotions, highlighting themes of love, loss, health struggles, and the impact of political changes. The conversation underscores the importance of community and connection as individuals navigate their journeys toward a more positive mindset.

Messages of Love and Communication December 10, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of communication, from traditional mail to modern texting and sexting. He discusses how these forms of messaging impact our chemistry and relationships, emphasizing the importance of sound and human connection. Armand reflects on the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a digital age, where messages can be misinterpreted and lack emotional depth. He also addresses the societal implications of texting, particularly among younger generations, and the potential consequences of digital communication in personal and professional contexts.

The End June 25, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of home, discussing its dual nature as a place of safety and love. He reflects on the evolution of humanity from cave dwellers to modern society, emphasizing the importance of social interaction and play for mental and emotional growth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he highlights the significance of creating a nurturing environment that fosters connection and joy. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by children today in finding time for unstructured play, and the impact of societal pressures on personal relationships and well-being.

Celebrations and the Primitive Self March 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Bernie Starr, Claudia Fox, Deborah King, Deidre Middleston Shide, Eric Morgan, Jeremy Spiegel, Lillian Gonzalez

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of celebrations and our connection to the primitive self. He discusses the allure of primitive instincts, such as dance, passion, and the need for connection, contrasting them with modern societal expectations. DeMille delves into the balance between intellect and instinct, emphasizing the importance of emotions and instincts in our lives. He also touches on the impact of hormones on our behaviors and relationships, urging listeners to understand their instincts while navigating modern life. The discussion highlights the duality of human nature, exploring both the Eros and Thanatos instincts, and encourages self-awareness and evolution.