The Positive Mind

Keyword: fame and happiness

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Exploring the Nature of Love October 28, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ari Erwin, Dr. Bernard Starr, Helen Fisher, Lucy Brown
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love, questioning whether it is merely an emotion or a chemical state. Drawing on research by anthropologist Helen Fisher, the discussion explores the biochemical and neurological underpinnings of romantic love, including the brain’s reward systems. The conversation touches on the challenges and joys of love, the risks involved, and how love evolves over time. Armand also reflects on personal experiences and the broader implications of love in human relationships.

Finding Your Authentic Self May 6, 2008

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of identifying one’s authentic self amidst societal pressures and personal struggles. Through humor and insightful anecdotes, he discusses the nature of depression, creativity, and the quest for authenticity. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and feelings, questioning what is real and what is merely a facade. The episode also touches on the importance of self-discovery and the challenges of navigating emotions in a fast-paced world.

Self-Defeating Behaviors January 3, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of self-defeating behaviors that hinder personal happiness and fulfillment. Drawing from psychological insights, he discusses common patterns such as procrastination, denial, and self-deception, and how they manifest in our daily lives. Armand encourages listeners to recognize these behaviors and offers strategies for overcoming them, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and acceptance. The episode aims to empower individuals to take actionable steps towards a more fulfilling life by addressing the barriers they create for themselves.

New Perspectives on New Year’s Traditions January 2, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various New Year’s traditions from around the world, highlighting their cultural significance and the underlying themes of renewal and reflection. He discusses how different cultures celebrate the New Year, from fireworks in China to the unique customs of Japan, Spain, and Italy. Armand emphasizes the importance of perspective in understanding these traditions and encourages listeners to consider their own resolutions, suggesting that small, manageable goals may be more effective than broad aspirations. The episode blends personal anecdotes with insights into human behavior and relationships, aiming to inspire a positive mindset for the year ahead.

Four Day Win November 20, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Martha Beck
Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, host Armand DiMele interviews Dr. Martha Beck, author of ‘The Four Day Win.’ They discuss innovative approaches to weight loss and personal change, emphasizing the importance of compassion towards oneself. Dr. Beck shares insights on the psychological dynamics between the ‘dictator’ and ‘wild child’ within us, illustrating how self-criticism can hinder progress. The conversation highlights the significance of small, manageable changes sustained over four days to create lasting behavioral shifts. By fostering a nurturing mindset, individuals can overcome resistance and achieve their goals, whether related to weight loss or other life challenges.

Exploring Happiness and Emptiness October 4, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alexandra Beller, Nicholas Vreeland
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with choreographer Alexandra Beller and Nicholas Vreeland, director of the Tibet Center, to discuss the complex relationship between happiness and emptiness. They explore societal perceptions of happiness, the impact of external validation, and the importance of inner contentment. Beller shares insights from her dance work, while Vreeland emphasizes the significance of self-reflection and the teachings of the Dalai Lama, who will be speaking at Radio City Music Hall. The conversation delves into the nature of happiness, the pitfalls of seeking pleasure, and the transformative power of understanding one’s self.

Loneliness and Genetic Legacy in Men October 3, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses new research suggesting that loneliness may have a genetic component, particularly in men. Drawing on studies conducted in the Netherlands involving twins, he explores how inherited traits can influence feelings of isolation. Armand reflects on the societal pressures men face to appear strong and self-sufficient, often leading to hidden struggles with loneliness and depression. He emphasizes the importance of emotional vulnerability and the need for men to express their feelings openly, while also addressing the complexities of male-female relationships. The episode invites listeners to share their experiences and insights on the topic.

Helping You Lead a More Positively Minded Life November 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of remorse and regret, discussing their impact on our lives and relationships. He delves into the psychology of psychopathy, highlighting the differences between remorse and regret, and how they shape our emotional experiences. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages self-reflection on past choices and the importance of understanding our emotions. The show emphasizes the value of learning from regrets while also promoting a positive mindset for the future.

Fame and Its Motivations August 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between fame and human behavior. He discusses how the desire for recognition can drive individuals, particularly in a society where fame is often equated with success. Drawing on psychological insights and cultural observations, Armand examines the motivations behind the pursuit of fame, from childhood aspirations to adult yearnings. He highlights the paradox of fame, where the desire for public acknowledgment can lead to feelings of isolation and scrutiny. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship with fame and the impact it has on their lives.

Understanding Normalcy and Happiness June 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of normalcy and happiness, discussing various levels of positivity and emotional states. He categorizes people from the ordinary nice person to the manic individual, highlighting the complexities of emotional health. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding oneself and others, emphasizing that while some emotional expressions are normal, others can indicate deeper issues. Armand also shares insights on how societal pressures and personal experiences shape our emotional responses.