Keyword: expectation management

Paradox of Choice April 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barry Schwartz, Sherri Siegel

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the paradox of choice, featuring insights from psychologist Barry Schwartz. Schwartz argues that while freedom and choice are essential to human welfare, an excess of options can lead to paralysis and dissatisfaction. He highlights how modern society’s abundance of choices in areas like healthcare and consumer goods can overwhelm individuals, making decision-making difficult and leading to regret. The conversation also touches on the implications of choice in personal relationships and the impact of societal expectations on happiness. Joined by guest Sherri Siegel, they explore the complexities of choice and its effects on mental health.

Expectations and Unveiling the Real Self October 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships and how people often unveil their true selves over time. He discusses the common experience of disappointment when partners change from their initial presentation, suggesting that what we perceive as change is often an unveiling of deeper aspects of their personalities. Through various examples, he illustrates how our needs and expectations can shape our perceptions of others, leading to misunderstandings. Armand encourages listeners to embrace the complexities of human nature and to recognize that both strength and vulnerability coexist within us all.