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Childhood Trauma August 13, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of childhood trauma with expert Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella. They explore the impact of early traumatic experiences on children’s emotional development and behavior, drawing parallels between childhood trauma and adult responses to stress. Linda Vanella Vanella shares insights from her work with soldiers suffering from PTSD and emphasizes the importance of caregiver involvement in healing. The conversation highlights the significance of recognizing and expressing feelings, as well as the role of supportive relationships in overcoming trauma. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the lasting effects of childhood trauma.

Understanding Rejection and Giving July 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Jamie, Sandra Reischus

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding rejection and the dynamics of giving and receiving. He discusses how early childhood experiences shape our perceptions of relationships and the feelings of rejection that often stem from them. Through engaging conversations with guests, Armand delves into the psychological aspects of giving, the discomfort some feel when receiving gifts, and the impact of personal histories on these interactions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and the importance of understanding emotions beyond surface-level perceptions.

Loneliness and Connection July 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex feelings of loneliness and connection, discussing how modern technology, like the internet, can both alleviate and exacerbate feelings of isolation. The conversation delves into statistics about loneliness among older adults and personal anecdotes about forming connections through gaming and other means. Listeners share their experiences and thoughts on loneliness, revealing the emotional struggles that come with feeling isolated, even in the presence of others. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the need for genuine connections.

Getting to Know You July 9, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and the challenge of truly knowing oneself and others. He discusses the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the fear of rejection that often prevents individuals from being fully open. Through engaging dialogue with his guest Giullian Gioiello and callers, Armand emphasizes the need for genuine connections and the role of therapy in understanding oneself. The conversation touches on the concept of ‘grokking’—a deep understanding of another person—and how it relates to love and acceptance in relationships.

Exploring Relationships and Anger April 8, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the role of anger and emotional dependency. He discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and the importance of prioritizing partners over family and friends. The conversation touches on the challenges of merging identities in relationships, the impact of trust issues, and the significance of self-awareness in navigating emotional turmoil. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with anger and intimacy, and how these feelings manifest in their relationships.

Love and Its Complexities March 26, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of love and its impact on human relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, they delve into the challenges therapists face when addressing love in their practice. The conversation touches on the definitions of normalcy, the role of mirror neurons in relationships, and the often exaggerated emotions associated with love. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, the episode highlights the complexities of love, including its potential to block personal growth and the various ways individuals bond with one another.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind March 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella delve into the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on fear, hatred, and vengeance. They explore how these feelings often originate in childhood and can manifest in various ways throughout life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and exploring these emotions rather than denying them, as this can lead to a more positive mindset. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with hatred and to consider how these feelings impact their relationships and sense of self.

Exploring Feelings and Communication February 4, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella, Michael G. Haskins

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the spectrum of human emotions, focusing on five basic feelings: sad, mad, glad, bad, and scared. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these emotions and their impact on communication, particularly in relationships. The conversation includes insights from guests about how different environments and situations can influence emotional responses, such as laughter in uncomfortable situations. The episode also touches on the complexities of positive and negative feelings, exploring how they manifest in everyday life and interactions.

Emotions and Fear January 29, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexity of emotions, focusing on fear as a primary feeling that many struggle with. He discusses how anxiety can lead to a sense of danger and the desire for security, often resulting in avoidance behaviors. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and processing these feelings rather than suppressing them. Through listener interactions, he highlights the commonality of these experiences and encourages individuals to confront their fears and seek understanding. The conversation delves into the interplay between personal history and emotional responses, aiming to empower listeners to lead a more positively minded life.

Betrayal January 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex issue of betrayal, focusing on self-betrayal and its roots in childhood. He discusses how early experiences with love and power shape our understanding of relationships and the choices we make as adults. Through conversations with guests, the episode delves into the emotional turmoil that arises from feeling betrayed by others and oneself. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of recognizing our authentic selves and the impact of societal expectations on our emotional well-being.