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Whip Smart Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melissa Febos

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Melissa Febos, author of ‘Whip Smart,’ a memoir detailing her experiences as a professional dominatrix in Manhattan. The conversation explores the complexities of power dynamics, the psychology behind BDSM, and the societal perceptions of sex work. Febos shares insights into her journey of self-discovery, the emotional intricacies of her clients, and the blurred lines between empowerment and exploitation in the sex industry. The discussion also touches on the therapeutic aspects of her work and the impact it had on her personal relationships and understanding of intimacy.

Exploring the Nature of Love Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex nature of love, discussing how it varies between individuals and is influenced by personal experiences. He explores the differences in how men and women perceive love, the role of bonding, and the impact of fear and possessiveness on relationships. Through various anecdotes and listener calls, Demeule emphasizes that love is a feeling rather than a defined concept, shaped by our interactions and emotional needs. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the dynamics of love in different contexts.

Understanding Your True Self Through Animal Choices Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of self-discovery through the metaphor of animals and colors. He discusses how the animal one chooses reflects their true nature, while their favorite color represents a facade. Through various examples shared by listeners, Armand illustrates the contrast between one’s intrinsic qualities and the persona they project. He delves into the complexities of emotions like pity and self-pity, emphasizing the importance of understanding oneself to achieve harmony in life. The show encourages listeners to engage in self-reflection and recognize the deeper truths behind their identities.

Walking 2.2 Miles in 102 Degree Weather Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Diane Boyden Pesso, Ilana Rubenfeld, Portia Franklin

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele shares a memorable experience from a conference at Princeton University where he was tasked with getting 2,000 attendees to walk 2.2 miles in scorching heat. He discusses the importance of childhood needs in adult relationships and introduces his guest, Portia Franklin, a psychotherapist specializing in psychomotor therapy. Together, they explore the five basic childhood needs: place, support, nurturance, protection, and loving limits, and how unmet needs can manifest in adult life. The conversation delves into the significance of emotional movement and the role of ideal parents in healing past wounds.

Toxic Desires Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Deborah Hillman delve into the complexities of human desires, particularly those deemed toxic. They explore the emotional underpinnings of these desires, including feelings of powerlessness and the need for validation. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with toxic desires, leading to insightful discussions about the consequences of pursuing such desires. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the deeper emotional needs that often drive these toxic urges.

Chemistry of Love and Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Darlene, Demetrius, Jeremy Shockley, Monroe, Tommy Thompson

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating intersection of chemistry and human relationships, focusing on the bonding hormone oxytocin. He discusses how oxytocin influences feelings of love, trust, and connection, while also revealing its potential to alienate individuals from others outside their close relationships. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand delves into personal experiences and the complexities of love, attachment, and the impact of familial bonds. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the dynamics of emotional connections.

Radical Ideas in Psychology Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships and the psychological constructs that influence how we perceive love and value. He discusses the idea that people often present a façade to gain affection and acceptance, questioning the authenticity of these interactions. Drawing on historical psychological theories and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the need to understand what we offer to others in relationships. The conversation touches on the commodification of emotional connections and the significance of being valued for our true selves.

Idiopathic Craniofacial Erythema Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of shame and embarrassment, particularly in relation to suicide. He discusses the impact of societal expectations and personal experiences on mental health, highlighting the struggles faced by individuals, including Afghan women and Japanese citizens. Through various personal stories and cultural insights, the episode delves into how shame can lead to self-destructive behaviors and the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with shame and to seek connection and support.

Dolly Shulman: Heartwarming Workshops and Emotional Awareness Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dolly Shulman

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes psychotherapist Dolly Shulman, who shares her journey of emotional awareness and the significance of her heartwarming workshops. At 77, Dolly reflects on her life experiences, including the trauma of losing her mother at a young age, which shaped her understanding of emotions and self-care. She emphasizes the importance of listening to one’s body and feelings as a guide to personal growth. The conversation delves into self-sabotage, the healing process, and the transformative power of workshops that encourage participants to embrace their authentic selves.

How to Get What You Really Want Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dale Goldstein

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dale Goldstein, author of ‘Heart Work,’ about the complexities of identifying and achieving what we truly desire in life. They explore the challenges of understanding our wants, the impact of societal pressures, and the importance of inner healing. Goldstein shares his nine-step process for self-discovery and emphasizes the need to confront and process our fears and pain. The conversation highlights the significance of personal growth and the transformative power of facing our inner struggles to ultimately achieve fulfillment and happiness.