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Betrayal January 21, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Giullian Gioiello delve into the complex topic of betrayal, exploring its various forms and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. They discuss historical examples, such as the betrayals of Jesus by Judas and Caesar by Brutus, and how these stories resonate with personal experiences of infidelity and deception. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of betrayal, including self-betrayal, guilt, and the impact on relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of trust in their lives.

Caregiving and Its Challenges April 17, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Diana Denholm, John Valerio, Linda Vanella
Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with Dr. Diana Denholm, author of ‘The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook.’ They explore the emotional toll on caregivers, the dynamics of care in relationships, and the importance of communication. Dr. Denholm shares insights from her personal experiences and offers practical tools for caregivers to manage their feelings of anger, resentment, and guilt. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding between caregivers and those they care for, highlighting the shared journey of love and support during challenging times.

Ben Starr Behind His Voices August 23, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Randy Kay
Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Randy Kay, author of ‘Ben Starr Behind His Voices,’ about her journey as a mother navigating the complexities of her son’s schizophrenia. Randy shares her experiences of recognizing early warning signs, the challenges of diagnosis, and the emotional toll of parenting a child with mental illness. The conversation highlights the importance of education, support systems like NAMI, and the necessity of establishing boundaries while maintaining hope for recovery. Through her story, Randy offers insights into the struggles and triumphs of families dealing with mental health issues.

Caregiving: Perspectives and Challenges September 9, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: David Travland, Rhonda Travland, Sherri Siegel
Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with Sherri Siegel and authors Rhonda and David Travland. They explore the emotional and physical toll on caregivers, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for self-care. The Travlands share their personal experiences with caregiving, including the challenges of managing chronic illness and the impact on relationships. They emphasize the significance of open communication and mutual support between caregivers and care recipients, highlighting the necessity of addressing both parties’ needs to maintain a healthy dynamic.

Masks We Wear When Wounded April 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne Marganow, Claudia Fox, Diane, Matilda, Susie
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of vulnerability and the masks we wear to hide our wounds. He discusses how individuals often project strength and confidence, especially during job searches or family gatherings, despite feeling hurt inside. Through anecdotes and a poignant poem, Armand invites listeners to reflect on the emotional toll of pretending to be okay. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and the burden of maintaining a facade, encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves and seek genuine connections. The episode serves as a reminder that vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships and personal growth.

Ice Cream in the Cupboard June 5, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Pat Moffitt
Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with Pat Moffitt, author of ‘Ice Cream in the Cupboard,’ about his personal journey with his wife Carmen, who was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s disease at the age of 53. Pat shares the challenges of caregiving, the emotional toll it took on him, and the gradual loss of connection with his wife. Through their story, he highlights the importance of awareness and understanding of early onset Alzheimer’s, as well as the need for support for caregivers. This heartfelt discussion sheds light on the complexities of love, loss, and the impact of Alzheimer’s on families.

Sandwich Generation April 8, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges faced by the sandwich generation, a term describing adults who care for both their children and aging parents. He highlights the emotional and physical toll this dual responsibility can take, especially on women, who make up a significant portion of this demographic. The conversation delves into the complexities of modern family dynamics, including the prolonged dependence of young adults on their parents and the increased longevity of older generations, which often leads to heightened caregiving demands. Armand encourages listeners to seek support and prioritize their own well-being amidst these challenges.

Motherhood, Raising Children and Struggling with Depression Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tracy Thompson
Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the often-overlooked issue of maternal depression with author Tracy Thompson. They explore the complexities of motherhood and the emotional toll it can take on women, highlighting the difference between postpartum depression and ongoing maternal depression. Tracy shares insights from her book, ‘The Ghost in the House,’ which delves into the struggles mothers face and the societal pressures that contribute to their mental health challenges. The conversation emphasizes the importance of support systems, open communication, and understanding within families to help mothers cope with their experiences.

Making Everyone Happy Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Casey, Giullian Gioiello, Joy, Linda Vanella, Marguerite, Naina Ervin, Richard, Roberta Maria Acchi, Seema, Tarun
Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of trying to make others happy, especially during the holiday season. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they explore the emotional toll it takes on individuals who feel responsible for the happiness of those around them. The conversation touches on personal experiences, societal expectations, and the challenges faced when one’s efforts to please others go unrecognized. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the balance between self-care and the desire to make others happy.