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Romance and Relationships September 14, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romance, focusing on the concepts of womanizers and manizers. He delves into the psychological aspects of sexual addiction, narcissism, and the motivations behind serial relationships. Through discussions on philanderers, erotomania, and persistent sexual arousal syndrome, Armand provides insights into why some individuals seek multiple partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs and the impact of familial relationships on adult behavior. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and relationships, fostering a deeper understanding of love and connection.

Radical Ideas in Psychology Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships and the psychological constructs that influence how we perceive love and value. He discusses the idea that people often present a façade to gain affection and acceptance, questioning the authenticity of these interactions. Drawing on historical psychological theories and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the need to understand what we offer to others in relationships. The conversation touches on the commodification of emotional connections and the significance of being valued for our true selves.

Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of communication between men and women, highlighting the inherent differences in their conversational styles. He discusses how men often seek to establish status through conversation, while women use dialogue to create intimacy. The episode features insights from Dr. Deborah Tannen’s research on communication patterns, emphasizing the misunderstandings that arise when men and women interact. Listeners are encouraged to appreciate these differences and find common ground in their relationships.

Arguments and Nonviolent Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tom Bond

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in the context of arguments and conflicts. He shares insights from his friend Richard on evaluating the motivations behind conversations and the importance of recognizing when discussions are unproductive. Joined by Tom Bond, a representative of nonviolent communication, they explore how to navigate difficult conversations, the significance of empathy, and the need to focus on feelings and needs rather than judgments. The episode emphasizes the transformative power of understanding and connection in communication.

Exploring the Nature of Love Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex nature of love, discussing how it varies between individuals and is influenced by personal experiences. He explores the differences in how men and women perceive love, the role of bonding, and the impact of fear and possessiveness on relationships. Through various anecdotes and listener calls, Demeule emphasizes that love is a feeling rather than a defined concept, shaped by our interactions and emotional needs. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the dynamics of love in different contexts.

Toxic Desires Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Deborah Hillman delve into the complexities of human desires, particularly those deemed toxic. They explore the emotional underpinnings of these desires, including feelings of powerlessness and the need for validation. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with toxic desires, leading to insightful discussions about the consequences of pursuing such desires. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the deeper emotional needs that often drive these toxic urges.

Asking for Help Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of asking for help and the psychological barriers that often prevent individuals from reaching out. He discusses the fears of surrender, shame, and separation that contribute to the reluctance to seek assistance. Drawing on insights from psychology, particularly Carl Jung’s archetypes, Armand delves into the societal pressures that shape our perceptions of vulnerability and dependency. Through anecdotes and listener calls, he highlights the importance of recognizing our needs and the transformative power of compassion, both for ourselves and others.

Objectification and Vulnerability Undated

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of objectification and vulnerability in human relationships. He discusses how people often distance themselves from their needs and emotions by objectifying others, leading to a lack of genuine connection. Through various calls, listeners share their experiences with jealousy, trauma, and the impact of past relationships on their present lives. Armand emphasizes the importance of confronting one’s vulnerabilities and making peace with past experiences to foster healthier relationships. The conversation highlights the need for self-awareness and the courage to embrace one’s feelings.