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Being Honest Without Hurting Feelings September 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the delicate balance between being truthful and being sensitive to others’ feelings. He explores how the fear of hurting loved ones can lead to dishonesty and emotional disconnect. Through various examples, he highlights the importance of self-awareness and the consequences of not being true to oneself. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the impact of their honesty or lack thereof. Ultimately, the conversation aims to foster understanding and promote healthier communication in personal connections.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Men and Their Relationships June 12, 2013

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of men’s relationships with themselves, their mothers, and romantic partners. He delves into the societal expectations placed on men, the impact of testosterone on behavior, and the struggles men face in navigating intimacy and vulnerability. The discussion highlights the internal conflicts that arise from traditional masculinity, including the fear of commitment and emotional expression. DeMille encourages listeners to understand these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Sexuality and Human Evolution June 4, 2013

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this special two-hour episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of human sexuality alongside guest Roberta Maria Ati. They discuss various theories regarding female orgasm, including the poleaxe theory, upsuck theory, and cuddle theory, and how these relate to human reproductive behavior. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the differences in sexual behavior between genders, and the societal implications of these evolutionary traits. The episode aims to shed light on the intricate relationship between sexuality, reproduction, and human evolution.

Nagging and the Pressure to Change May 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional pressure partners often exert on each other to change, commonly referred to as nagging. He explores the dynamics of relationships where one partner attempts to change the other, leading to resentment and conflict. Armand emphasizes the importance of total acceptance in love, highlighting that true love does not come with the desire to change the other person. The conversation delves into the negative effects of nagging, the roots of resentment, and the need for self-reflection in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own experiences with nagging and the impact it has on their relationships.

Domestic Violence Awareness April 23, 2013

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the critical issue of domestic violence with Dr. Noel Nelson, author of ‘Dangerous Relationships.’ They explore the alarming statistics surrounding domestic violence, including its prevalence and the various warning signs that can indicate a potentially abusive relationship. Dr. Nelson outlines seven key signs, such as controlling behavior, possessiveness, and insensitivity, that individuals should be aware of to protect themselves. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signs early and taking proactive steps to ensure personal safety and well-being.

Exploring the Impact of Love on Well-Being April 2, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Scott Baum

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Scott Baum about the essential role of love in human well-being. They discuss how love affects emotional and physical health, particularly during childhood development. Dr. Baum shares insights from his experience as a bioenergetic psychotherapist, explaining how the absence of love can lead to physical manifestations of emotional distress. The conversation delves into the complexities of intimacy, the body-mind connection, and the importance of nurturing relationships for personal growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and its impact on their lives.

Communication and Understanding April 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Rachel Hatt

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Rachel Hatt delve into the intricacies of communication, exploring how people often fail to convey their true meanings. They discuss the importance of active listening, the pitfalls of assumptions, and the significance of curiosity in understanding others. The conversation highlights techniques such as paraphrasing and asking open-ended questions to foster deeper connections. They also address common communication traps, including the use of ‘why’ and ‘but,’ which can hinder effective dialogue. The episode emphasizes that effective communication is a skill that requires practice and a willingness to engage with others authentically.

Understanding Yourself and Your Relationships March 12, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the importance of self-awareness in relationships. He discusses the distinction between individuals who are self-aware and those who are not, emphasizing how self-awareness can lead to healthier interactions. Armand shares techniques for introspection, such as tracking mood changes and understanding personal feelings, to help listeners gain insights into their emotional states. He advocates for therapy not just as a remedy for distress but as a tool for personal growth. By fostering curiosity and empathy in conversations, individuals can deepen their connections and enhance their understanding of themselves and others.

Relationships and Spirituality January 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Judith Gass, Robbie Gass

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships with guests Robbie and Judith Gass. They explore the challenges of love, the importance of self-awareness, and the spiritual dimensions of partnerships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, they emphasize the need for patience, communication, and the willingness to grow together. The conversation touches on the significance of recognizing one’s own role in relationship dynamics and the transformative power of love when approached with openness and commitment.