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Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Exploring Relationships and Anger April 8, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the role of anger and emotional dependency. He discusses how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and the importance of prioritizing partners over family and friends. The conversation touches on the challenges of merging identities in relationships, the impact of trust issues, and the significance of self-awareness in navigating emotional turmoil. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with anger and intimacy, and how these feelings manifest in their relationships.

Fears and Advice November 6, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fear and the often unsolicited advice people give. He engages with callers about their personal fears, ranging from phobias to deeper psychological issues rooted in childhood experiences. The discussion also delves into the dynamics of family relationships, particularly the challenges of dealing with overbearing advice from parents and loved ones. Through heartfelt conversations, listeners reflect on their own fears and the impact of advice on their lives, revealing the intricate connections between fear, love, and personal growth.

Mentoring and Sponsoring August 14, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Armand

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages in a deep conversation with Esther Armand about the importance of mentoring and sponsoring individuals in need. They explore the cultural significance of community support, the role of elders, and the transformative power of mentorship. Esther shares her experiences working with young women, particularly those who have faced incarceration, and emphasizes the need for a willing spirit in both mentors and mentees. The discussion highlights the essence of recognizing and nurturing brilliance in others, as well as the challenges and rewards of guiding individuals towards their potential.

Men and Their Relationships June 12, 2013

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of men’s relationships with themselves, their mothers, and romantic partners. He delves into the societal expectations placed on men, the impact of testosterone on behavior, and the struggles men face in navigating intimacy and vulnerability. The discussion highlights the internal conflicts that arise from traditional masculinity, including the fear of commitment and emotional expression. DeMille encourages listeners to understand these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

A Nation of Wimps May 15, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Hara Estroff Marano

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of invasive parenting on children’s mental health with guest Hara Estroff Marano, author of ‘A Nation of Wimps.’ They explore how overprotective parenting leads to increased anxiety, depression, and a lack of coping skills in children. Marano highlights the importance of allowing children to experience failure and learn from it, emphasizing that play is essential for brain development. The conversation delves into societal pressures on parents and the consequences of prioritizing achievement over emotional well-being, ultimately questioning how to foster independence in the next generation.

Graduate Class in Positive Psychology June 19, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of human behavior, particularly focusing on dependency and independence in relationships. They discuss the challenges faced by individuals with dependent personality traits, exploring how these traits manifest in therapy and everyday life. Through engaging dialogue, they emphasize the importance of understanding oneself and others without judgment, highlighting the significance of compassion and connection in fostering personal growth. The conversation also touches on the dynamics of relationships, the role of therapists, and the journey towards self-discovery and empowerment.

Welcome to June June 5, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the intricate mechanics behind radio programming and the importance of communication in relationships. He reflects on the impact of modern technology on family dynamics, emphasizing how texting and social media have transformed interactions between parents and children. Armand shares insights on the excitement and anxiety that come with anticipation, particularly in the context of personal connections. He explores the balance between familiarity and excitement in relationships, and how technology can both enhance and hinder genuine communication. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with family communication in the digital age.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Rebellion September 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Ramey

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of rebellion, discussing its importance in personal growth and development. He reflects on his childhood experiences and the concept of conformity, sharing anecdotes about adolescents’ struggles against authority. Joined by guests Alex and Ramey, they delve into their own experiences with rebellion, the pressures of school and work, and the significance of standing up for oneself. The conversation highlights how rebellion can manifest in various forms and the vital role it plays in shaping identity and independence.