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Holiday Reflections and Self-Gifting December 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of the holiday season, focusing on the roles individuals play within their families during this time. He discusses the concept of scapegoating, the emotional dynamics of gift-giving, and the phenomenon of ‘recession fatigue’ where people indulge in self-gifting amidst economic uncertainty. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their personal experiences and consider how they treat themselves during the holidays, whether through positive self-care or negative self-criticism. The conversation also touches on the importance of connection and joy during this festive season.

Expectations and Unveiling the Real Self October 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships and how people often unveil their true selves over time. He discusses the common experience of disappointment when partners change from their initial presentation, suggesting that what we perceive as change is often an unveiling of deeper aspects of their personalities. Through various examples, he illustrates how our needs and expectations can shape our perceptions of others, leading to misunderstandings. Armand encourages listeners to embrace the complexities of human nature and to recognize that both strength and vulnerability coexist within us all.

Irrationality and Expectations July 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Dan Ariely

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of irrationality with behavioral economist Dr. Dan Ariely, author of ‘Predictably Irrational.’ They explore how expectations shape our experiences, particularly in the context of placebos and the psychology behind pain relief. Ariely shares personal anecdotes from his time in a burn unit and discusses the surprising effects of price and origin on perceived medication efficacy. The conversation delves into the complexities of human behavior, including the fear of abandonment and the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding our irrational tendencies.

Living Together: The Neat vs. Messy Dilemma August 31, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of living with roommates or partners, focusing on the contrasts between neat and messy individuals. He discusses how these differences can affect relationships, from noise levels to food sharing and personal space. Armand emphasizes the importance of communication and compromise when cohabitating, highlighting the need to address issues like cleanliness, noise sensitivity, and personal boundaries. Through anecdotes and listener calls, he provides insights into navigating the complexities of shared living arrangements.

Homeland Insecurity and Love February 9, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the theme of ‘Homeland Insecurity’ during WBAI’s fund drive, exploring how threats can shake our spirits. He delves into the complexities of love, discussing three types: love, lust, and limerence, while emphasizing the importance of understanding love’s dynamics. Joined by researcher Stephanie D’Ambra, they examine the nature of love sickness and the impact of unrequited love. The conversation highlights the fragility of the human spirit and the necessity of accepting different forms of love. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Exploring Relationship Dynamics Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Ora Yemini Morrison

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele, along with guests Ora Yemini Morrison and Giullian Gioiello, delve into the complexities of relationships. They explore various types of relationships, from competitive and dominant-submissive dynamics to love-based and friendship-oriented connections. The discussion highlights how relationships can evolve over time, often shifting from one type to another. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationship patterns and the emotional dynamics at play. The episode also touches on the impact of cultural differences and personal experiences on relationship dynamics, inviting callers to share their stories and insights.

Lessons for Psychotherapists Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the unique insights gained from the practice of psychotherapy and how they can be applied to everyday life. He emphasizes the importance of personal knowledge and self-awareness in fostering positive change. DeMille introduces the concept of ‘criminal intention’—the hidden motivations behind our actions that often lead to dysfunctional relationships. Through personal anecdotes and examples, he encourages listeners to explore their own intentions and the impact they have on their lives and relationships. This episode serves as a guide for self-discovery and understanding the deeper layers of our behavior.