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Music’s Influence on Humanity December 25, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound impact of music on human nature. He reflects on how music has inspired hope, love, and valor, serving as a universal language that transcends barriers. Armand shares his admiration for various musicians, particularly highlighting the works of Ray Bryant and the collaborative efforts of legendary artists like Dizzy Gillespie and Sonny Rollins. The episode emphasizes music’s role as a source of comfort, joy, and a necessary luxury in life, inviting listeners to immerse themselves in the beauty of sound.

Financial Well-Being and Debt April 15, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the emotional and psychological impacts of financial stress and debt on individuals and families. He opens the lines for listeners to share their experiences and feelings about financial insecurity, emphasizing that everyone has the right to feel scared about their financial situation, regardless of their material possessions. The discussion touches on compulsive buying disorder, the stigma of debt, and the importance of maintaining emotional connections with loved ones during tough times. Armand encourages listeners to seek support and find strength in their relationships as they navigate financial challenges.

Listening April 3, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nuances of listening and its significance in human interactions. He discusses various types of listeners, the importance of being genuinely heard, and the impact of effective communication on relationships. Armand shares anecdotes about listening in different contexts, from personal relationships to professional settings, emphasizing that true listening goes beyond mere words. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own listening habits and the value of being present in conversations. The episode invites introspection on how listening shapes our connections with others.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships March 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores his philosophy on love, detailing the eight significant phases of romantic relationships. He discusses the initial honeymoon phase, where passion and chemistry dominate, followed by the reality testing phase, where partners begin to see each other more clearly. As relationships evolve, they face challenges such as the ‘seven-year itch’ and the need for security and acceptance. Dimele emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in navigating these phases, ultimately leading to a deep, lasting connection. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Memory and Love September 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Patti

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Patti explore the intricate relationship between memory and love. They discuss recent scientific discoveries about how migrating birds perceive the Earth’s magnetic field, drawing parallels to human emotional connections. The conversation delves into the complexities of attraction, the role of early childhood memories, and the mysterious factors that influence whom we love. With insights into neurobiology and psychology, they challenge traditional theories of attraction and bonding, emphasizing that many elements of love remain elusive and unexplainable. The episode invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences of love and memory.

Inheritance Neurosis September 25, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Tripp Evans, Kent Robertshaw

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological impacts of wealth and inheritance, particularly focusing on the concept of ‘inheritance neurosis.’ Joined by Kent Robertshaw and Dr. Tripp Evans, they explore how the anticipation of receiving an inheritance can lead to feelings of entitlement, lack of motivation, and emotional deprivation among heirs. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships affected by wealth, the societal perceptions of the rich, and the emotional struggles faced by those who grow up in affluent families. The hosts emphasize the importance of fostering independence and self-worth in children, regardless of their financial background.

Memory and Emotion in Learning September 19, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the intricate relationship between memory and emotion. They discuss how emotions can enhance memory retention, the mechanisms behind memory formation, and the importance of attention in learning. The hosts share personal anecdotes and scientific insights, emphasizing that both positive and negative emotions play crucial roles in how we remember experiences. They also touch on the implications of memory in everyday life, including its impact on learning and personal growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own memories and consider the emotional connections that shape them.

Armand DiMele September 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Sleep and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human behavior, focusing on the differences in how individuals experience love, sleep, and sexuality. He discusses the phenomenon of parasomnia, particularly sexomnia, where individuals engage in sexual behaviors while asleep without any memory of the actions. Through engaging dialogue with callers, Armand delves into personal sleep habits, the impact of environment on sleep quality, and the intricate connections between sleep and sexual arousal. The conversation emphasizes the uniqueness of each person’s experiences and the importance of understanding these differences in fostering empathy and connection.

Exploring Sarcasm July 10, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex nature of sarcasm, examining its psychological implications and effects on relationships. He discusses how sarcasm can serve as a defense mechanism, reflecting anger and insecurity, while also highlighting its connection to intelligence. Through insights from recent neural research, DeMille explains how sarcasm operates in the brain and its potential to harm interpersonal connections. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own use of sarcasm and its impact on their lives and relationships.