The Positive Mind

Keyword: emotional connection

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Affection January 18, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of affection and its significance in relationships. He discusses the various forms of affection, including nurturing, play, and the importance of touch, particularly for the elderly. The conversation highlights how affection can impact mental health and the ways in which cultural differences shape our understanding of affection. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with affection and its role in their lives, emphasizing the need for connection and the potential consequences of its absence.

Exploring the Chemistry of Love and Relationships September 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the intricate chemistry of love, discussing how initial attraction is influenced by body language, tone of voice, and the powerful hormones involved in bonding. He explores the three stages of love: lust, attraction, and attachment, highlighting the roles of neurotransmitters like adrenaline, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. DeMille also examines how these chemical reactions impact relationships, family dynamics, and even mental health, suggesting that issues like PMS and ADD may be symptomatic of broader relational tensions. The conversation invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and connection.

Technology and Its Impact on Our Lives July 22, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the effects of technology on communication, relationships, and our brains. He reflects on the shift from landlines to cell phones and how this change has influenced our ability to connect with others. The conversation explores the addictive nature of technology, particularly the dopamine response associated with multitasking and digital stimulation. Armand emphasizes the importance of being present in our interactions, especially with children, and suggests that parents should embrace their children’s technological knowledge. Ultimately, the episode raises questions about the balance between technology use and meaningful human connection.

Surviving Relationships and Exit Strategies April 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the often overlooked ‘flight’ reaction in relationships, contrasting it with the more commonly discussed ‘fight or flight’ response. He delves into how individuals prepare exit strategies in their relationships, whether consciously or subconsciously, and discusses the psychological mechanisms behind these behaviors. Armand categorizes people into three types based on their relationship dynamics: those who are comfortable being alone, those who have Ben Starr damaged and seek attachment, and those who choose partners with known flaws. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own strategies for coping with relationship challenges and the importance of maintaining emotional connections.

Exploring the Nature of Balance and Self-Discovery January 12, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of human emotions, relationships, and the quest for balance in life. He delves into the impact of antidepressants, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of Gestalt therapy in understanding oneself. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand emphasizes the need for individuals to confront their inner struggles, recognize their patterns, and seek a deeper connection with themselves. The episode highlights the significance of personal growth and the challenges faced in navigating emotional landscapes.

Irritability and Relationships December 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the phenomenon of irritability in relationships, discussing how love can turn into disregard over time. He examines the hormonal influences, such as prolactin and testosterone, that contribute to feelings of irritability and lack of compassion towards loved ones. Armand shares personal anecdotes and insights into how couples can navigate these challenges, emphasizing the importance of communication and self-awareness. The conversation highlights the need for understanding the underlying causes of irritability and the impact it has on relationships, encouraging listeners to seek connection and compassion despite the struggles.

Exploring Technology and Communication September 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Claire Fuhrer, Giullian Gioiello, Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the impact of technology on communication and learning with guests Claire Fuhrer, Giullian Gioiello, and Stephanie D’Ambra. They explore topics such as the evolution of radio technology, the rise of social media platforms like Facebook, and the implications of constant connectivity. The conversation touches on the balance between embracing new technology and maintaining personal connections, as well as the potential downsides of digital communication. The guests share their experiences with technology, highlighting both its benefits and challenges in their daily lives.

Bonding and Therapy July 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of bonding in therapy and relationships, emphasizing the importance of oxytocin in fostering connections. He explores why individuals may leave therapy prematurely, citing reasons such as anger towards the therapist, financial constraints, and a lack of perceived progress. DeMille highlights the significance of trust and emotional connection in therapeutic settings, arguing that effective therapy often hinges on the bond between therapist and client. He also touches on the biological aspects of bonding, including the roles of oxytocin and prolactin in human relationships, and how these hormones influence feelings of love and attachment.

Bitterness and Relationships June 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of bitterness and its impact on relationships. He discusses the American Psychiatric Association’s interest in ‘bitterness syndrome’ and examines how hormonal responses, particularly prolactin, can affect intimacy and connection between partners. Through various anecdotes and discussions with callers, he emphasizes the importance of understanding the biological and emotional factors that contribute to relationship challenges. Armand encourages listeners to fight for their relationships and to seek deeper connections, despite the societal and biological pressures that may lead to disconnection.

Masks We Wear When Wounded April 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne Marganow, Claudia Fox, Diane, Matilda, Susie
Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of vulnerability and the masks we wear to hide our wounds. He discusses how individuals often project strength and confidence, especially during job searches or family gatherings, despite feeling hurt inside. Through anecdotes and a poignant poem, Armand invites listeners to reflect on the emotional toll of pretending to be okay. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and the burden of maintaining a facade, encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves and seek genuine connections. The episode serves as a reminder that vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships and personal growth.