Keyword: dysfunctional behavior

Exploring Drama in Life January 13, 2015

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of human emotions and relationships, drawing parallels between life and dramatic situations. He discusses the nature of drama in our lives, the regrets we harbor, and the planning we engage in as humans. Through engaging conversations with listeners, he explores themes of love, loss, and the search for meaning. Armand emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our feelings and the dramatic situations we find ourselves in, encouraging listeners to confront their emotions and seek resolution. The episode also touches on the impact of past relationships and the journey toward self-love and acceptance.

Nagging and the Pressure to Change May 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional pressure partners often exert on each other to change, commonly referred to as nagging. He explores the dynamics of relationships where one partner attempts to change the other, leading to resentment and conflict. Armand emphasizes the importance of total acceptance in love, highlighting that true love does not come with the desire to change the other person. The conversation delves into the negative effects of nagging, the roots of resentment, and the need for self-reflection in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own experiences with nagging and the impact it has on their relationships.

Noble Self and Positive Intentions December 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Stephanie Roth about the concept of the ‘noble self’—the inner hero within each individual. They explore how focusing on positive intentions behind seemingly dysfunctional behaviors can lead to personal growth and understanding. Roth emphasizes the importance of uncovering the noble self in various situations, including overspending, addiction, and even infidelity, by recognizing the underlying motivations and desires that drive these actions. The conversation encourages listeners to approach their challenges with compassion and a focus on wellness rather than judgment.

Lessons for Psychotherapists Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the unique insights gained from the practice of psychotherapy and how they can be applied to everyday life. He emphasizes the importance of personal knowledge and self-awareness in fostering positive change. DeMille introduces the concept of ‘criminal intention’—the hidden motivations behind our actions that often lead to dysfunctional relationships. Through personal anecdotes and examples, he encourages listeners to explore their own intentions and the impact they have on their lives and relationships. This episode serves as a guide for self-discovery and understanding the deeper layers of our behavior.