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Strategies for Living November 12, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores various strategies people use to navigate life, drawing parallels between human behavior and animal instincts. He discusses how individuals develop unique strategies based on their upbringing and experiences, such as the need for approval, the desire for beauty, or the instinct to dominate. Through engaging conversations with guests, the show delves into the complexities of human relationships and the importance of understanding different survival strategies. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own strategies and how they impact their lives and interactions with others.

Power Exchange December 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of power exchange in relationships, particularly focusing on dominance and submission. He discusses how individuals often fight for the rights of others while being dominated in their personal lives. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of these relationships, the appeal of power dynamics, and the reasons why some individuals prefer to be submissive or dominant. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own preferences and experiences in relationships, with a focus on the complexities of emotional power and control.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Submissiveness and Power Dynamics June 7, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Lorna Sykes

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of submissiveness and learned helplessness, exploring how these traits manifest in personal relationships and workplace dynamics. He contrasts the roles of ‘servers’ and ‘peacemakers,’ highlighting the psychological impacts of learned helplessness on health and social interactions. The conversation delves into the complexities of power dynamics, both in nature and human relationships, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own power to effect change. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences with submissiveness and how it shapes their lives.

Betrayal and Trust June 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of betrayal and trust, discussing how these concepts manifest in various relationships, including romantic, familial, and political contexts. He delves into the psychological impacts of betrayal trauma, highlighting how it can distort perceptions and affect emotional well-being. Through engaging anecdotes and insights, Armand examines the nuances of jealousy, dominance, and the human tendency to overlook betrayal in the name of love or loyalty. The discussion also touches on the societal implications of betrayal, particularly in leadership and governance.

Alpha Leaders April 11, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the concept of alpha leaders, discussing the characteristics that define alpha males and females. They delve into the distinctions between alpha personalities and type A personalities, examining how these traits manifest in both humans and animals. The conversation highlights the roles of alpha individuals in maintaining group cohesion and leadership, as well as the potential psychological impacts of losing one’s territory. The hosts also touch on the complexities of alpha dynamics in relationships and society, providing insights into the nature of leadership and influence.

Understanding Depression: An Evolutionary Perspective April 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Acchi

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Acchi delve into the complexities of depression, exploring its evolutionary roots and societal perceptions. They discuss how depression is often viewed as a weakness, particularly among men, and how societal norms can exacerbate the issue. The conversation touches on Darwinian medicine, the rank theory, and how depression may have served as a survival mechanism in early humans. They also examine the impact of modern societal structures on mental health, including the role of food and lifestyle choices in exacerbating depressive symptoms. The episode aims to provide a deeper understanding of depression as both a personal and collective experience.

Competition and Its Psychological Implications November 2, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atin explore the intriguing nature of competition, its origins, and its psychological effects on individuals. They discuss how competition manifests in various aspects of life, including sibling rivalry and societal structures. The hosts delve into the science behind finger length and its correlation with hormone levels, revealing how these biological factors influence behavior and competitiveness. The conversation also touches on the differences between male and female competition, the roles of testosterone and estrogen, and the implications for social and sexual dynamics. This episode provides valuable insights into understanding competition’s impact on personal and professional relationships.

Whip Smart Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melissa Febos

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Melissa Febos, author of ‘Whip Smart,’ a memoir detailing her experiences as a professional dominatrix in Manhattan. The conversation explores the complexities of power dynamics, the psychology behind BDSM, and the societal perceptions of sex work. Febos shares insights into her journey of self-discovery, the emotional intricacies of her clients, and the blurred lines between empowerment and exploitation in the sex industry. The discussion also touches on the therapeutic aspects of her work and the impact it had on her personal relationships and understanding of intimacy.

Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of communication between men and women, highlighting the inherent differences in their conversational styles. He discusses how men often seek to establish status through conversation, while women use dialogue to create intimacy. The episode features insights from Dr. Deborah Tannen’s research on communication patterns, emphasizing the misunderstandings that arise when men and women interact. Listeners are encouraged to appreciate these differences and find common ground in their relationships.