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Loneliness and Connection July 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex feelings of loneliness and connection, discussing how modern technology, like the internet, can both alleviate and exacerbate feelings of isolation. The conversation delves into statistics about loneliness among older adults and personal anecdotes about forming connections through gaming and other means. Listeners share their experiences and thoughts on loneliness, revealing the emotional struggles that come with feeling isolated, even in the presence of others. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the need for genuine connections.

Understanding Transitional Objects and Sensitivity January 30, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological concept of transitional objects and how they relate to grief and relationships. He explores the emotional complexities that arise when individuals experience loss, particularly in the context of divorce and the death of loved ones. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand highlights the importance of being sensitive and compassionate in relationships, emphasizing the need for understanding and support. The conversation also touches on the role of music and memories as transitional objects that can evoke deep feelings and connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with grief and the significance of transitional figures in their lives.

Family Constellations and Relationships March 13, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Linda Vanella

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of family relationships, emphasizing the impact of our original families on our lives. He discusses the concept of family constellations, the dynamics between parents and children, and the challenges faced by single parents. The conversation delves into the historical context of family structures and how modern laws affect familial connections. Armand invites listeners to reflect on their own family experiences and the importance of questioning inherited beliefs. The episode also features insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and John Valerio, contributing to a rich dialogue about the evolving nature of family.

Exploring Emotional Reactions September 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Elisa, Feli Stengel, Lauren Sykes, Marcus, Thelma Wingate

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of emotional reactions, particularly focusing on irrationality and over-emotionality in relationships. He discusses how these reactions can manifest in various forms, such as fear, anger, and sadness, and how they can impact interpersonal dynamics. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding these emotional responses and their biological underpinnings, particularly the role of the amygdala. He also highlights the societal fascination with emotional extremes, especially in media, and encourages listeners to seek calm and rationality amidst emotional turmoil.

Fear of Being Trapped July 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fundamental human instincts related to the fear of being trapped, both physically and emotionally. He discusses how this fear manifests in various aspects of life, from relationships to financial responsibilities, and highlights the importance of finding escape routes, whether through vacations or personal growth. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling trapped and the instinctual need for freedom and flexibility. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences of feeling confined and to consider the necessity of change and escape in their lives.

Exploring Midlife Crisis and Relationships July 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various psychological insights related to midlife crises, relationships, and societal beliefs. He examines recent research linking midlife crises in men to their wives’ experiences with menopause, challenging politically correct notions. The conversation also touches on the implications of polygamy in different cultures, the motivations behind sexual relationships, and the emotional burdens carried by individuals. DeMille invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and encourages open dialogue about these complex topics.

Romance and Love May 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romance and love, discussing how these emotions can lead to both joy and turmoil. He delves into the psychological aspects of love, including obsession, jealousy, and the phenomenon of stalking. DeMille highlights the impact of love on mental health and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and understanding in navigating romantic connections. He also touches on the societal implications of love-related issues, such as stalking and emotional dependency, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of their attachments.

Love and Relationships March 1, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Annalisa Erba

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with clinical psychologist Dr. Annalisa Erba about the evolving landscape of romantic partnerships. They discuss how societal expectations around love, marriage, and family have shifted over the decades, particularly since the 1960s. Dr. Erba shares insights on the complexities of modern relationships, including the rise of singlehood, changing gender roles, and the impact of technology on dating. The conversation also touches on historical perspectives of love and marriage, revealing how cultural norms have shaped personal relationships today.

Bipolar II November 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Ronald Fieve

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Ronald Fieve about the nuances of bipolar II, a condition often overlooked in discussions about mental health. They explore the characteristics of bipolar II, including its potential benefits and how it differs from bipolar I. Dr. Fieve emphasizes the importance of understanding the family history and the societal implications of bipolarity, particularly in relation to creativity and achievement. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by individuals with bipolar II in relationships and the impact of hypersexuality during hypomanic phases. This insightful discussion aims to shed light on the complexities of bipolarity and encourage a more nuanced understanding of mental health.

Long-Range Effects of 9/11 September 7, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the profound psychological and physical impacts of the 9/11 attacks, particularly as the anniversary approaches. He highlights findings from health studies on first responders and the general public, revealing increased rates of anxiety, PTSD, and other health issues. DeMille emphasizes the long-term psychological effects, noting how pre-existing conditions were exacerbated by the trauma of the event. He also explores the paradox of community bonding and personal growth that emerged in the aftermath, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the changes they’ve undergone since that pivotal day.