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Superstition and Luck January 11, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of superstition and luck, exploring their impact on our lives and beliefs. He shares personal anecdotes and insights from guests, including Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla, about how superstitions shape our perceptions and behaviors. The conversation delves into the origins of superstitions, the psychological aspects of magical thinking, and the importance of understanding our beliefs. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own superstitions and how they influence their lives, ultimately seeking a balance between belief and reality.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.

Exploring Trust December 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the concept of trust, discussing its significance and the complexities surrounding it. He shares insights from a recent Gallup poll on the trustworthiness of various professions, revealing that nurses and pharmacists rank highest in public trust, while members of Congress and lobbyists rank lowest. Armand emphasizes the importance of healthy skepticism and self-awareness in relationships, suggesting that true love can exist without absolute trust. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with trust and the impact of past relationships on their current perceptions. The episode features engaging discussions with guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vidal, who shares her perspectives on self-trust and relationships.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Fear of Close Relationships October 4, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the reasons behind people’s fear of forming close relationships. He discusses how past experiences and childhood conditioning can lead to a reluctance to love and connect with others. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing these fears and understanding that love should not be equated with pain or control. He encourages listeners to confront their fears and to seek healthier, more fulfilling relationships. The episode also touches on the dynamics of control in relationships and the role of victimhood in emotional connections.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships September 1, 2011

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, outlining his philosophy on the eight significant phases of love. From the exhilarating honeymoon phase to the challenges of long-term commitment, he discusses how timing, chemistry, and personal circumstances shape our romantic experiences. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding these phases to foster healthier relationships and navigate the inevitable changes that come with love. He also touches on the hormonal influences that affect our feelings and behaviors within relationships.

Family Secrets and Their Impact August 17, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of family secrets and their profound effects on relationships. He discusses how secrets can divide families, create misunderstandings, and freeze emotional development. The conversation highlights the importance of timing and context when revealing secrets, emphasizing that while some secrets can foster bonds, others can lead to lasting emotional scars. Armand shares insights from his experience as a therapist, illustrating the delicate balance between keeping and revealing secrets within families. The episode encourages listeners to consider the impact of secrets on their own lives and relationships.

Protecting Others and Ourselves August 10, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joseph, Linda Vanella, Lynn, Tom Bond, Yvonne

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind the desire to protect others, often stemming from our own insecurities and fears. He discusses how individuals may attach themselves to those they feel compelled to protect, sometimes as a means of safeguarding their own emotional well-being. Through various anecdotes and examples, including relationships affected by addiction and mental health challenges, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their protective instincts and the potential consequences of overextending themselves. The conversation delves into the Enneagram’s three instincts—self-preservation, social, and sexual—and how they influence our relationships and sense of safety.

Fear and Its Many Forms August 9, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the pervasive nature of fear and its various manifestations, from general apprehension to specific phobias and paranoia. Drawing from his experience on Wall Street, he explores how fear can arise from perceived threats, both external and internal. The conversation delves into the impact of fear on personal relationships, trust, and decision-making, highlighting the fine line between healthy caution and debilitating anxiety. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own fears and the role they play in their lives.

Elder Abuse Awareness and Discussion June 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the often-overlooked topic of elder abuse, exploring its various forms, including physical, emotional, financial, and neglect. He reflects on the changing perceptions of elders in society, the importance of work for maintaining purpose, and the alarming statistics surrounding elder abuse. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness and action to protect vulnerable older adults, encouraging listeners to recognize signs of abuse and to advocate for better care and respect for the elderly. Armand also shares personal anecdotes and insights from callers, highlighting the emotional complexities involved in caring for aging loved ones.