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Mindfulness and Emotional Awareness October 1, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of mindfulness and emotional awareness with guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla and Giullian Gioiello. They explore the benefits and pitfalls of mindfulness, emphasizing the importance of processing negative emotions rather than suppressing them. The conversation delves into the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the dangers of triangulation in family dynamics, and the necessity of honesty in personal connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their emotions, confront their past, and seek genuine connections with others.

Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Understanding Rejection and Giving July 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Jamie, Sandra Reischus

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions surrounding rejection and the dynamics of giving and receiving. He discusses how early childhood experiences shape our perceptions of relationships and the feelings of rejection that often stem from them. Through engaging conversations with guests, Armand delves into the psychological aspects of giving, the discomfort some feel when receiving gifts, and the impact of personal histories on these interactions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with rejection and the importance of understanding emotions beyond surface-level perceptions.

Getting to Know You July 9, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and the challenge of truly knowing oneself and others. He discusses the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the fear of rejection that often prevents individuals from being fully open. Through engaging dialogue with his guest Giullian Gioiello and callers, Armand emphasizes the need for genuine connections and the role of therapy in understanding oneself. The conversation touches on the concept of ‘grokking’—a deep understanding of another person—and how it relates to love and acceptance in relationships.

Relationships and Love May 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Audrey Clark, Barbara Katz Nelson, Giullian Gioiello, John Coltrane, Kevin O'Donoghue, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love and relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological aspects that often lead to confusion and pain. He delves into the differences in how men and women experience love, the impact of neediness, and the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships and the common pitfalls that can arise from desperation and unrealistic expectations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can navigate the intricacies of love more effectively.

Love and Its Complexities March 26, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of love and its impact on human relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, they delve into the challenges therapists face when addressing love in their practice. The conversation touches on the definitions of normalcy, the role of mirror neurons in relationships, and the often exaggerated emotions associated with love. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, the episode highlights the complexities of love, including its potential to block personal growth and the various ways individuals bond with one another.

Betrayal January 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex issue of betrayal, focusing on self-betrayal and its roots in childhood. He discusses how early experiences with love and power shape our understanding of relationships and the choices we make as adults. Through conversations with guests, the episode delves into the emotional turmoil that arises from feeling betrayed by others and oneself. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of recognizing our authentic selves and the impact of societal expectations on our emotional well-being.

Betrayal January 21, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Giullian Gioiello delve into the complex topic of betrayal, exploring its various forms and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. They discuss historical examples, such as the betrayals of Jesus by Judas and Caesar by Brutus, and how these stories resonate with personal experiences of infidelity and deception. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of betrayal, including self-betrayal, guilt, and the impact on relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of trust in their lives.

Psychology of Questioning January 14, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychology of questioning and its significance in communication and relationships. He discusses how people often conceal their true feelings and thoughts from physicians and loved ones, highlighting the challenges that arise from unasked questions. The conversation delves into the reasons behind our reluctance to share personal truths and the importance of asking the right questions to foster understanding and connection. With insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, the episode emphasizes that genuine curiosity and open dialogue can lead to deeper relationships and personal growth.

Grandchildren and Isolation January 8, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bill Hickok, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests discuss the concept of isolation and its impact on mental health. They explore the benefits of stepping out of isolation into group settings, emphasizing the importance of hope, universality, and social skills. The conversation highlights how group therapy and social environments like coffee houses can foster connection and personal growth. The hosts also touch on the darker side of group dynamics, illustrating how similar social mechanisms can manifest in negative contexts. Ultimately, they advocate for the importance of community and connection in overcoming isolation.