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Loneliness and Genetic Legacy in Men October 3, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses new research suggesting that loneliness may have a genetic component, particularly in men. Drawing on studies conducted in the Netherlands involving twins, he explores how inherited traits can influence feelings of isolation. Armand reflects on the societal pressures men face to appear strong and self-sufficient, often leading to hidden struggles with loneliness and depression. He emphasizes the importance of emotional vulnerability and the need for men to express their feelings openly, while also addressing the complexities of male-female relationships. The episode invites listeners to share their experiences and insights on the topic.

Stealing and Deception August 23, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of stealing and deception, examining their prevalence in human behavior and nature. He discusses how deception is a natural part of life, drawing parallels between animal behavior and human actions. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights the moral dilemmas surrounding theft, whether it’s taking physical items or emotional connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with stealing and the motivations behind such actions, ultimately fostering a deeper understanding of human nature.

Exploring the State of Medicine and Psychiatry June 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Alan Lanz, Kent Robertshaw

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the evolving landscape of the medical profession, particularly focusing on psychiatry and the overmedication of patients. Joined by Kent Robertshaw and Dr. Alan Lanz, the conversation delves into the complexities of somatization disorders, the doctor-patient relationship, and the pressures faced by physicians in today’s healthcare system. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding emotional and psychological factors in medical treatment, advocating for a more holistic approach to patient care that prioritizes listening and relationship-building over quick fixes and prescriptions.

Romance and Love May 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romance and love, discussing how these emotions can lead to both joy and turmoil. He delves into the psychological aspects of love, including obsession, jealousy, and the phenomenon of stalking. DeMille highlights the impact of love on mental health and relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and understanding in navigating romantic connections. He also touches on the societal implications of love-related issues, such as stalking and emotional dependency, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of their attachments.

Affairs, Relationships, and Healing May 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of infidelity in relationships, addressing the emotional turmoil that arises when one partner discovers the other has cheated. He explores the statistics surrounding affairs, the psychological impact on both partners, and the societal factors that contribute to infidelity. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of jealousy, betrayal, and the potential for healing after such a traumatic experience. He encourages listeners to seek support and to focus on personal growth, rather than demanding details or placing blame. The episode serves as a guide for navigating the difficult terrain of relationships affected by infidelity.

Lying and Deception April 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of lying and deception, discussing various motivations behind why people lie, such as self-esteem protection, conflict avoidance, and impression management. He examines cultural differences in perceptions of lying, the impact of individualism versus collectivism, and how personality traits influence reactions to dishonesty. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the nuances of truth and deception, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with honesty and the societal implications of lying.

Youth and the Challenges They Face March 27, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Brian Jefferson, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of youth today with guests Barbara Jessen, a psychologist, and Stephanie D’Ambra, a medical researcher. They explore the challenges faced by teenagers, including mental health issues, the impact of technology, and the importance of supportive environments. Jessen shares insights from her work with troubled teens at the United Methodist Youth Home, emphasizing the need for understanding and empowerment. The conversation delves into the significance of positive reinforcement, the role of rules in nurturing growth, and the importance of addressing the unique needs of today’s youth.

Socialization and Overcoming Fear March 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the challenges of socialization and the fears that often accompany it, such as social anxiety and phobia. He reflects on his experiences speaking to large audiences and the importance of building social connections. The episode features insights from listeners about their own struggles with social fear and the journey to overcome it. Armand emphasizes the significance of human connection and the need to engage with others, despite the rising trend of isolation in modern society. He encourages listeners to confront their fears and embrace social interactions.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Monogamy and Its Complexities January 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Mariotti

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Mariotti delve into the intricacies of monogamy, exploring its biological, social, and emotional dimensions. They discuss the definitions of genetic, sexual, and social monogamy, and how these concepts manifest in both human and animal behaviors. The conversation highlights the challenges of maintaining monogamous relationships in modern society, the impact of societal norms, and the biological imperatives that influence sexual behavior. They also touch on alternative relationship structures like polyamory, questioning the effectiveness and sustainability of monogamous commitments.