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Understanding Crazy Makers April 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of ‘crazy making’ and the various types of individuals who engage in this behavior. He explores how stressors in life can lead to feelings of nervousness and insecurity, and how some people manipulate others into feeling crazy or insecure. The discussion includes insights into personality types such as self-centered individuals, drama cultivators, and stealth bombers, who all contribute to emotional turmoil in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to recognize these behaviors and understand their impact on mental health.

April Fool’s Day and Resilience April 1, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ed Zara

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of humor, pain, and resilience, particularly in the context of April Fool’s Day. He discusses the impact of cognitive dissonance, the importance of trustworthiness in fostering resilience, and the challenges faced by children and adults dealing with trauma. Guest Ed Zara shares insights on helping children recover and build resilience through honest relationships. The conversation delves into the deeper emotional struggles individuals face and the significance of being present and trustworthy in the healing process.

Arguments and Understanding January 28, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of arguments and communication in relationships. Joined by guests Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello, they explore the nature of arguments, the importance of perspective, and how to foster understanding rather than conflict. The conversation delves into personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the need for constructive dialogue and emotional connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own communication styles and the dynamics of their relationships, with a focus on empathy and collaboration. The episode also touches on upcoming programming related to the four horsemen of relationships.

Fear and Trust in Relationships January 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Ben Starr delve into the complex relationship between fear and trust. They explore how fear can serve as both a protective mechanism and a barrier to genuine connection. The discussion touches on personal experiences with trust, the impact of upbringing on perceptions of fear, and the balance between being open and cautious in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with fear and how it shapes their interactions with loved ones. The conversation highlights the importance of finding a healthy middle ground in navigating trust and fear.

Shared Pain and Connection January 14, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrea Katz, Ben Starr, Diane, Giullian Gioiello, Oh Sui, Seth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of shared pain and its impact on relationships and personal growth. Through discussions with guests, the show delves into how emotional pain can become addictive and how shared experiences of pain can foster deeper connections among individuals. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, cultural differences in expressing grief, and the dynamics of relationships influenced by past traumas. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with pain and connection, and how these elements shape their lives.

Exploring Drama in Life January 13, 2015

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of human emotions and relationships, drawing parallels between life and dramatic situations. He discusses the nature of drama in our lives, the regrets we harbor, and the planning we engage in as humans. Through engaging conversations with listeners, he explores themes of love, loss, and the search for meaning. Armand emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our feelings and the dramatic situations we find ourselves in, encouraging listeners to confront their emotions and seek resolution. The episode also touches on the impact of past relationships and the journey toward self-love and acceptance.

Narcissism and Relationships January 6, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of narcissism in relationships with expert Wendy Behary, author of ‘Disarming the Narcissist.’ They explore the characteristics of narcissistic individuals, the impact on their partners, and strategies for managing these challenging dynamics. Wendy shares insights into recognizing narcissistic traits, the importance of empathy, and how to confront narcissistic behavior while maintaining healthy boundaries. The conversation emphasizes understanding the underlying vulnerabilities of narcissists and the significance of reinforcing positive behaviors in relationships.

Mental Toughness and Relationships December 30, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of home life and relationships on personal success and mental toughness. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, they explore strategies for building mental resilience, including taking responsibility for one’s actions, not taking things personally, and letting go of the past. The conversation also touches on the importance of intimacy in relationships and how the dynamics of a partner can influence one’s professional life. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their growth and the role of their relationships in shaping their success.

Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

Urban Living and the Dance of the City November 25, 2014

In this episode, host Armand DiMele explores the complexities of urban living, particularly in New York City. Joined by co-hosts Ben Starr and guest Audrey Clark, they discuss the fast-paced lifestyle of city dwellers compared to rural living. The conversation delves into the unique challenges and advantages of living in a densely populated area, including the rhythm of life, the multitude of languages spoken, and the impact of urban culture on personal relationships. The episode also touches on the emotional toll of city life and the importance of community connections.