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Mental Toughness and Relationships December 30, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of home life and relationships on personal success and mental toughness. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, they explore strategies for building mental resilience, including taking responsibility for one’s actions, not taking things personally, and letting go of the past. The conversation also touches on the importance of intimacy in relationships and how the dynamics of a partner can influence one’s professional life. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their growth and the role of their relationships in shaping their success.

Exploring Emptiness with Dr. Robert Gunn July 17, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Robert Gunn

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with Dr. Robert Gunn, author of ‘Journeys into Emptiness,’ to discuss the profound feeling of emptiness that many experience in life. They explore the psychological and spiritual dimensions of emptiness, the journey towards understanding it, and the importance of connection with oneself and others. Dr. Gunn shares insights from his studies of Zen Buddhism and notable figures like Dogen and Thomas Merton, emphasizing the necessity of community, discipline, and trust in navigating the complexities of emptiness and fulfillment.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.

Exploring the Real Self and Love April 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the real self versus the outer self, questioning the authenticity of our identities. He discusses the concept of the loving self and how it relates to our feelings of satisfaction and connection with others. Through various examples, including relationships and personal experiences, Armand challenges listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of love and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes that love often reflects how we feel about ourselves in the presence of others, prompting a deeper exploration of what it means to be truly real.

Rhythms of Relationship January 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety and commitment. He discusses how relationships can fluctuate between intimacy and distance, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of love. Armand challenges conventional definitions of love, suggesting that each individual’s experience is unique and cannot be confined to societal norms. He highlights the different sensations associated with love, from desire to satisfaction, and encourages listeners to embrace their own feelings without the pressure of labels. The episode invites reflection on the nature of love and the freedom that comes from defining it on one’s own terms.

Greed and Insatiability April 27, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of greed and its insatiable nature, discussing how societal values and personal experiences shape our desires. He delves into the psychological aspects of greed, examining its impact on happiness and relationships. Through various examples, including the stock market and personal anecdotes, Armand invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with greed. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between healthy desires and destructive greed, encouraging a conversation about the balance between personal fulfillment and the well-being of others.

Paradox of Choice April 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barry Schwartz, Sherri Siegel

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the paradox of choice, featuring insights from psychologist Barry Schwartz. Schwartz argues that while freedom and choice are essential to human welfare, an excess of options can lead to paralysis and dissatisfaction. He highlights how modern society’s abundance of choices in areas like healthcare and consumer goods can overwhelm individuals, making decision-making difficult and leading to regret. The conversation also touches on the implications of choice in personal relationships and the impact of societal expectations on happiness. Joined by guest Sherri Siegel, they explore the complexities of choice and its effects on mental health.

Relationships and Their Challenges March 12, 2009

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of romantic relationships, particularly how they evolve over time, especially after having children. He discusses the challenges couples face in maintaining their connection and the importance of understanding one’s own needs. Through anecdotes and listener calls, Armand emphasizes the significance of self-awareness and growth in relationships, urging individuals to prioritize their emotional well-being while navigating the dynamics of love and partnership.

Greed and the Human Condition December 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of greed and its impact on human relationships and personal fulfillment. Joined by Dr. Bernard Starr, they discuss how greed can manifest in various forms, from the desire for wealth to the need for love and validation. Through engaging conversations and listener calls, they delve into the motivations behind greed and the importance of recognizing our desires. The episode emphasizes the need for balance in our lives, encouraging listeners to reflect on what truly matters—connection, love, and self-awareness—over material pursuits.

When Is It Time to Leave? July 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex question of when it’s time to leave various aspects of life, including relationships, jobs, and even friendships. He discusses the emotions tied to leaving, such as anger and dissatisfaction, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these feelings. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to evaluate their situations and consider whether staying or leaving is the best choice. The episode also touches on the significance of communication and understanding in relationships, urging individuals to express their feelings rather than act on impulse.