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Rhythms of Relationship January 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety and commitment. He discusses how relationships can fluctuate between intimacy and distance, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of love. Armand challenges conventional definitions of love, suggesting that each individual’s experience is unique and cannot be confined to societal norms. He highlights the different sensations associated with love, from desire to satisfaction, and encourages listeners to embrace their own feelings without the pressure of labels. The episode invites reflection on the nature of love and the freedom that comes from defining it on one’s own terms.

Greed and Insatiability April 27, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of greed and its insatiable nature, discussing how societal values and personal experiences shape our desires. He delves into the psychological aspects of greed, examining its impact on happiness and relationships. Through various examples, including the stock market and personal anecdotes, Armand invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with greed. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between healthy desires and destructive greed, encouraging a conversation about the balance between personal fulfillment and the well-being of others.

Greed and the Human Condition December 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of greed and its impact on human relationships and personal fulfillment. Joined by Dr. Bernard Starr, they discuss how greed can manifest in various forms, from the desire for wealth to the need for love and validation. Through engaging conversations and listener calls, they delve into the motivations behind greed and the importance of recognizing our desires. The episode emphasizes the need for balance in our lives, encouraging listeners to reflect on what truly matters—connection, love, and self-awareness—over material pursuits.

Exploring the Nature of Love October 28, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ari Erwin, Dr. Bernard Starr, Helen Fisher, Lucy Brown

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love, questioning whether it is merely an emotion or a chemical state. Drawing on research by anthropologist Helen Fisher, the discussion explores the biochemical and neurological underpinnings of romantic love, including the brain’s reward systems. The conversation touches on the challenges and joys of love, the risks involved, and how love evolves over time. Armand also reflects on personal experiences and the broader implications of love in human relationships.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Sexuality and Desire November 21, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel about the complexities of sexuality and desire in relationships. They discuss the interplay between intimacy and eroticism, the impact of societal norms on sexual fulfillment, and the importance of maintaining desire through novelty and playfulness. Perel emphasizes that desire often thrives on uncertainty and that couples should actively negotiate their boundaries and expectations regarding monogamy. The conversation also touches on the significance of privacy in sexual relationships and the need for open communication about fantasies and desires.

Exploring Happiness and Emptiness October 4, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alexandra Beller, Nicholas Vreeland

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with choreographer Alexandra Beller and Nicholas Vreeland, director of the Tibet Center, to discuss the complex relationship between happiness and emptiness. They explore societal perceptions of happiness, the impact of external validation, and the importance of inner contentment. Beller shares insights from her dance work, while Vreeland emphasizes the significance of self-reflection and the teachings of the Dalai Lama, who will be speaking at Radio City Music Hall. The conversation delves into the nature of happiness, the pitfalls of seeking pleasure, and the transformative power of understanding one’s self.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Toxic Desires Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Deborah Hillman delve into the complexities of human desires, particularly those deemed toxic. They explore the emotional underpinnings of these desires, including feelings of powerlessness and the need for validation. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with toxic desires, leading to insightful discussions about the consequences of pursuing such desires. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the deeper emotional needs that often drive these toxic urges.

How to Get What You Really Want Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dale Goldstein

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dale Goldstein, author of ‘Heart Work,’ about the complexities of identifying and achieving what we truly desire in life. They explore the challenges of understanding our wants, the impact of societal pressures, and the importance of inner healing. Goldstein shares his nine-step process for self-discovery and emphasizes the need to confront and process our fears and pain. The conversation highlights the significance of personal growth and the transformative power of facing our inner struggles to ultimately achieve fulfillment and happiness.