Keyword: delusional jealousy

Exploring Drama in Life January 13, 2015

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of human emotions and relationships, drawing parallels between life and dramatic situations. He discusses the nature of drama in our lives, the regrets we harbor, and the planning we engage in as humans. Through engaging conversations with listeners, he explores themes of love, loss, and the search for meaning. Armand emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our feelings and the dramatic situations we find ourselves in, encouraging listeners to confront their emotions and seek resolution. The episode also touches on the impact of past relationships and the journey toward self-love and acceptance.

Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Obsessiveness and Love September 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nature of obsessiveness and its connection to love and relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Ben Starr, and Giullian Gioiello, the conversation explores the psychological mechanisms behind obsessive thoughts and behaviors, including the role of the amygdala in processing fear and anxiety. The group shares insights on how emotional evanescence affects our perceptions of past traumas and relationships, and offers practical advice on coping with obsessive feelings, such as engaging in acts of kindness, physical activity, and seeking new experiences to break the cycle of negative thoughts.

Violence and Its Roots June 17, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of violence, examining its origins and manifestations in both personal and societal contexts. He discusses the impact of childhood experiences, the influence of video games, and the biochemical factors that contribute to violent behavior. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal stories of witnessing violence and the lasting effects it has on individuals. The episode aims to foster understanding and reflection on the nature of violence, encouraging listeners to confront their own feelings and experiences related to aggression.

Understanding Transitional Objects and Sensitivity January 30, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the psychological concept of transitional objects and how they relate to grief and relationships. He explores the emotional complexities that arise when individuals experience loss, particularly in the context of divorce and the death of loved ones. Through anecdotes and examples, Armand highlights the importance of being sensitive and compassionate in relationships, emphasizing the need for understanding and support. The conversation also touches on the role of music and memories as transitional objects that can evoke deep feelings and connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with grief and the significance of transitional figures in their lives.

Psychology for Therapists Part 12: Magical Thinking and the Double Bind September 4, 2012

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of magical thinking and the double bind, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and mental health. He discusses how these psychological phenomena can shape our perceptions and behaviors, often leading to confusion and anxiety. Through examples and personal anecdotes, Armand illustrates how individuals navigate these complex emotional landscapes, emphasizing the importance of understanding these dynamics for therapists and their clients. The conversation also touches on the role of perception and communication in relationships, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences.

Emotions and Their Manipulation August 15, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of emotions and the ways they can be elicited and manipulated. He discusses the concept of trolling, the emotional responses it evokes, and how emotions can be both a source of connection and a tool for manipulation. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and societal observations, Armand delves into why people may seek to provoke emotional reactions in others. The conversation also touches on the therapeutic process and the importance of understanding one’s own emotions to navigate interpersonal dynamics effectively.

Toxic Relationships July 24, 2012

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of toxic relationships, exploring how they can affect mental and emotional well-being. He shares insights on identifying toxic behaviors, such as manipulation, verbal abuse, and emotional isolation, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own feelings and boundaries. The conversation also touches on the impact of upbringing on relationship dynamics and the necessity of seeking objective perspectives. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their relationships and consider whether they are nurturing or harmful, as well as the potential for healing and growth.

Betrayal and Trust June 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of betrayal and trust, discussing how these concepts manifest in various relationships, including romantic, familial, and political contexts. He delves into the psychological impacts of betrayal trauma, highlighting how it can distort perceptions and affect emotional well-being. Through engaging anecdotes and insights, Armand examines the nuances of jealousy, dominance, and the human tendency to overlook betrayal in the name of love or loyalty. The discussion also touches on the societal implications of betrayal, particularly in leadership and governance.

Jealousy and Possessiveness September 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of jealousy and possessiveness in relationships. He discusses how introspection can help individuals understand their feelings and reactions, particularly in the context of romantic relationships. The conversation touches on childhood behaviors, societal expectations, and the impact of technology on possessiveness. Armand and his guest, Stephanie D’Ambra, delve into the nuances of these emotions, questioning whether a certain level of jealousy is natural or harmful. They also examine how possessiveness can manifest differently in men and women, and the cultural implications of these feelings.