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Betrayal January 21, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Giullian Gioiello delve into the complex topic of betrayal, exploring its various forms and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. They discuss historical examples, such as the betrayals of Jesus by Judas and Caesar by Brutus, and how these stories resonate with personal experiences of infidelity and deception. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of betrayal, including self-betrayal, guilt, and the impact on relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of trust in their lives.

Getting to the Source of Pain August 1, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone explore the importance of understanding the underlying causes of emotional and physical pain. They discuss the concept of masks people wear to hide their true selves and the complexities of seeking authenticity. The conversation delves into various coping mechanisms, the Enneagram personality types, and the challenges of revealing one’s real self. Through listener calls, they address the struggles of dealing with family dynamics and the impact of deception on relationships. The episode emphasizes the necessity of self-awareness and the courage to confront one’s true feelings.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Truth Telling and Its Complexities April 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of truth-telling and the human tendency to deceive. He discusses how our self-esteem and feelings of powerlessness can lead to dishonesty, and how societal norms often dictate our relationship with truth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he delves into the consequences of seeking honesty in relationships and the challenges faced when confronting uncomfortable truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our motivations for truth and deception, and how these dynamics play out in personal relationships.

What a Day Today January 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the recent inauguration speech and the emotions it stirred. Joined by Dr. Bernard Starr, they analyze the implications of political speeches, the nature of gullibility, and the historical context of societal scams. They explore how emotions like fear, greed, and loneliness can lead to vulnerability, making individuals susceptible to deception. The conversation delves into the importance of awareness and critical thinking in navigating the complexities of trust in institutions and the impact of social pressures on decision-making.

Stealing and Deception August 23, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of stealing and deception, examining their prevalence in human behavior and nature. He discusses how deception is a natural part of life, drawing parallels between animal behavior and human actions. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights the moral dilemmas surrounding theft, whether it’s taking physical items or emotional connections. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with stealing and the motivations behind such actions, ultimately fostering a deeper understanding of human nature.

Lying and Deception April 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of lying and deception, discussing various motivations behind why people lie, such as self-esteem protection, conflict avoidance, and impression management. He examines cultural differences in perceptions of lying, the impact of individualism versus collectivism, and how personality traits influence reactions to dishonesty. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the nuances of truth and deception, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with honesty and the societal implications of lying.

Learning About Adaptation and Deception in Nature and Humans March 28, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the concept of adaptation and deception both in nature and among humans. They discuss various examples from the animal kingdom, such as the wounded bird and the ball fish, to illustrate how creatures adapt their appearances and behaviors for survival. The conversation transitions to human behavior, examining the imposter syndrome and factitious disorders, where individuals may alter their identities or exaggerate illnesses to gain attention or acceptance. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding these behaviors within the context of social expectations and personal insecurities.

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Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the survival strategies of animals and how they parallel human behavior. He discusses the instinctual need to survive, the role of deception in both the animal kingdom and human interactions, and the various ways individuals protect themselves from perceived threats. From mimicry and camouflage to the psychological defenses humans employ, DeMille illustrates how these strategies manifest in everyday life. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these behaviors as adaptations to ensure safety and survival in a complex world.