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Exploring the Real Self and Love April 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the real self versus the outer self, questioning the authenticity of our identities. He discusses the concept of the loving self and how it relates to our feelings of satisfaction and connection with others. Through various examples, including relationships and personal experiences, Armand challenges listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of love and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes that love often reflects how we feel about ourselves in the presence of others, prompting a deeper exploration of what it means to be truly real.

Triangulation in Family Dynamics December 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of triangulation within family dynamics, particularly how children often become caught between parental conflicts. He discusses the psychological implications of this behavior, including the roles of good and bad parents, and how these dynamics can affect adult relationships. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal experiences of triangulation, the challenges of familial loyalty, and the importance of recognizing one’s own role in these patterns. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and self-reflection to break free from these cycles.

Trust and Trustworthiness June 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of trust and trustworthiness. He discusses the psychological need to trust others and the challenges of being seen as trustworthy. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights how trust can be manipulated and the importance of integrity in relationships. Armand also addresses the difficulties faced by individuals who struggle with trust due to past experiences and societal influences. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own trust issues and the qualities that make someone trustworthy.

Father’s Day Reflections June 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fatherhood and the emotional impact fathers have on their children. With Father’s Day approaching, he discusses the often unresolved feelings many individuals harbor towards their fathers, including anger, disappointment, and longing for connection. Through personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand encourages reflection on the nature of fathering, the importance of understanding one’s feelings, and the potential for healing. The conversation delves into various aspects of father-child relationships, emphasizing the significance of both positive and negative experiences in shaping one’s identity.

Loyalty December 19, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of loyalty, discussing its implications in personal relationships, politics, and society. He reflects on how loyalty can shift over time, influenced by personal experiences and societal expectations. Through anecdotes and philosophical insights, he encourages listeners to examine their own loyalties—whether to family, friends, or country—and what those loyalties truly mean. The conversation also touches on the impact of loyalty in business and the importance of standing by others during difficult times.

Doubting People January 4, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychology of doubters—individuals who live with suspicion and fear of losing everything. He discusses how childhood experiences shape their skepticism and the impact of lacking trust in themselves and others. DeMille highlights the paradox of doubters seeking security while simultaneously fearing intimacy and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and gently supporting these individuals, as they often yearn for connection but are terrified of being overwhelmed. The episode delves into the complexities of doubt, trust, and the human experience.

Honoring Others Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Catherine, Dario, Dr. Scott Baum, Giullian Gioiello, Jason, Jay, Ling, Marie Antoinette

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of honoring others by speaking positively about them, inspired by a program from Joel Osteen. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing the good in people, both directly and indirectly, and contrasts this with the tendency to gossip negatively. The conversation explores how positive affirmations can strengthen relationships and create a supportive community. Listeners are encouraged to practice honoring others in their daily lives, highlighting the simplicity and impact of kind words and actions.